Has your husband or bf ever made you dress sexier in public?

I want to make mine do it, and I'd like to hear some of your experiences first.

Guys answer here: https://www.isitnormal.com/post/have-you-ever-made-your-wife-gf-dress-sexier-in-public--246555

Yes, and he liked the attention I received but I didn't. 6
Yes, and I liked the attention I received but he didn't. 0
Yes, and we both liked it. 11
No. He tried, but I didn't comply because I wasn't comfortable / was offended. 0
No. He never tried and I'm glad he didn't. 3
No. He never tried but I could be convinced if he did. 0
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  • mata_n

    My boyfriend always made me wear short skirts or dresses wherever we went. At first I didn't mind it at all. I was happy to hear from him how he loves my legs and that I am his leggy princess. But later he started to buy me skirts which are eccentric and ridiculously short - just inch bellow my butt cheeks when standing. He pretty often tells me to wear them to the mall, movies, bars. Any movement other than standing still causes the darker nylon of my pantyhose show below the bottom of skirt. Even sitting there isn't any skirt to sit on, just my panties and pantyhose. I guess he likes showing me off and enjoy other men looking at me. So, this makes me sometimes a little uncomfortable, yet. It's embarrassing, especially if we see someone we know. On the other hand, I get often excited to see him so excited.

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    • Yeah you're his thing and he enjoys showing you off. As long as he can handle the situation and you see him knowing exactly what he wants, it's best to go along with his desires. It arouses his passions, and that's good for your relationship in general. All the best.

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      • mata_n

        Thank you, I try to comply his fantasies but sometimes I am really ashamed, especially when somebody who I know makes some comment about my clothes. But when we are not with friends or family I am able sometimes to enjoy these situations and his passion for it.

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        • It's not just about complying to specific fantasies, it's broader than that.

          Here's how I see it. For things to run smoothly in a relationship, someone has to clearly wear the pants. And if he's the one in charge, then he has the responsibility to protect you and provide for you and take care of the big external matters. And in exchange he gets to have a say in where you go, who you hang out with, what your tasks are as his girlfriend, the amount of freedom and options you can have, how you dress / what to wear, etc. And so you should just see this as part of him being the head of the home/relationship and making you dress however he sees fit, because he knows best.

          But before you give him this authority over you, he has to prove himself capable of making decisions, of planning ahead, of handling himself in difficult situations, and of ensuring protection and provision. Not every guy is fit to lead.

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  • Lizzgrio

    I had a bf that would tell me to wear short shorts and tight tops, always wanted me to look hot and sexy, he wanted other guys to want me as he watched them gat at me. Send me to the store to go get stuff and he would go too but act like we weren't together until he saw guys flirting with me for a while, then he would b like they're nice huh and grab up on me in public, at first I would get super shy, but I liked the attention only because it was in a way erotic. However one day he did this at one of his friends house, dude was like meet my boys I told him for what? No. Well after many failed attempts one day I met his boys and that was the day I fell for his friend, and I told him.
    They both knew that a. I was with bf#1 & that I had a thing for bf#2 .. they were neighbors.. and if I wasnt at #1 I was @ #2's house .. and they knew ..
    I never lied I kept it honest. And one day I just let #1 go.. 3 years now with #2 and he & I have literally built from the ground up. He was no saint either. And probably coolest thing is were all still friends we party together but now Im only with one of them. And ironically he likes to see me dress sexy and likes to see guys want me difference is he won't let me go and I totally dig that.

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    • The first store part sounds hot. That's what I'd do.

      Yeah it's better not to involve close friends. Unless they're in couple and you're gonna swing. It's also better not to let it get too personal with other men, I mean you still want most of the attention coming from you, not from other guys. If the first one didn't want to lose you he should've simply forbid you from seeing the guy you were falling for especially that he knew, but since he didn't he probably wanted to end it to. I mean I tell my girl to wear this and that (I'm even thinking of pimping her out for money one day) but I also know who she can see and hang out with and who she can't. The guy should still be the one to make the calls in the relationship.

      The fact that the second one also likes it when you dress sexy suggests that pretty much all guys like it when their girl is getting slutty and is desired like that by other men.

      What do you mean "built from the ground up" and he won't let you go where?

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  • goodatgiving

    My wife always dresses very scantily and risque when we go out just short of getting arrested. She loves the attention and compliments she always receives as she teases the guys at the clubs and bars we frequent.

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    • Sounds hot.

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  • ChrissySnow

    Yes, I prefer to dress comfortably but I like to go out to do stuff together. My husband likes to wears suits and nice clothes but he likes to stay home. So when we go out he complains a lot about us not matching and not wanting to be embarrassed being with me dressed my way. He started buying me sexier clothes to wear but the stuff he buys is REALLY whorish! We compromised a bit and when he takes me out near home, I'll wear normal but nicer dresses, and to make him happy with my more modest choices, I'll go without panties.

    If we are FAR from home and family, I'll wear some of the slutty things HE likes me to wear. I'm not comfortable in that stuff but it IS a turn on to be seen in it like that. It wasn't my idea but this is the only way we found that works for us.

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    • Nice. Do you get persistent stares from guys, and where do they generally look?

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      • ChrissySnow

        Just out of habit, and embarrassment, I normally try NOT to see their eyes and focus straight in front of me.

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        • Out of curiosity, what was it that you wore that you consider slutty?

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          • ChrissySnow

            Skirts that are TOO short, loads of cleavage showing, or worse, tops so this they can see my bra or that I'm not wearing one. That kind of thing. The first thing he bought me was a bathing suit that is too small to be legal to wear in public.

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            • Damn girl, that would've brought you some lustful gazes coming from me. I'd like to see my gf in that.

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  • JimmyBoyy

    you can't "make" her do ANYTHING. it's her choice, do not pressure her. but asking is fine. not "making"

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