My wife and I have been sharing with other like minding couples for years and my wife loves the experience of being used by different guys. Finding a good swingers group is the hardest as a lot are just an excuse for an orgy where the woman are treated badly and seen as easy meat to be used and abused. We have found this out in the past on a number of times where my wife has been made to do all sorts of sex acts some of which I with a very open mind found hard to accept. Watching you wife being used, abused like that is not nice. That's the negatives, find a great group and you will both have lots of enjoyment, yes you wife is going to have sex with a stranger but you can enjoy the company of a lot of nice kind people who want to sexually enjoy themselves in a safe environment. Best trying to find some good reviews of local groups on the internet and try talking to some members first, see if you can go along just to see what goes on, no participation, before committing yourself and wife. If you a happy that she is having regular sex, more often with more than one man at a meeting and she is happy you are going to do the same with another woman then go for it.
If you can find people who respect your boundaries, go for it. I have been in monogamous relationships enough to know that I'll never do that again. I never strayed from my love, but now that I am single, I can see how people would want to be with others. As long as you both are willing, I say go for it. Just NEVER, EVER hold it against one another if it isn't what you expected.
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My wife and I have been sharing with other like minding couples for years and my wife loves the experience of being used by different guys. Finding a good swingers group is the hardest as a lot are just an excuse for an orgy where the woman are treated badly and seen as easy meat to be used and abused. We have found this out in the past on a number of times where my wife has been made to do all sorts of sex acts some of which I with a very open mind found hard to accept. Watching you wife being used, abused like that is not nice. That's the negatives, find a great group and you will both have lots of enjoyment, yes you wife is going to have sex with a stranger but you can enjoy the company of a lot of nice kind people who want to sexually enjoy themselves in a safe environment. Best trying to find some good reviews of local groups on the internet and try talking to some members first, see if you can go along just to see what goes on, no participation, before committing yourself and wife. If you a happy that she is having regular sex, more often with more than one man at a meeting and she is happy you are going to do the same with another woman then go for it.
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Thanks for the input. I am however the wife, but thank you
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If you can find people who respect your boundaries, go for it. I have been in monogamous relationships enough to know that I'll never do that again. I never strayed from my love, but now that I am single, I can see how people would want to be with others. As long as you both are willing, I say go for it. Just NEVER, EVER hold it against one another if it isn't what you expected.
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Thank you for the insight!