Has anyone had experience with being a swinger

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We have been thinking about trying the swingers scene or eve sexting another couple. Any advice tips?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    I'm not interested in sharing, to be completely honest the thought of it all nauseates me.

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    • Bigtittysexfreak
      6 years ago

      Newly into our relationship I felt the same way you do, but after being together well over 10 years with complete trust and great communication its something i would like to further look into. This isnt for everyone just like being homosexual or bi isnt for everyone and in some cases being with one person is not for everyone. I would never judge someone based on their sexual desires.

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      • Barbarella
        6 years ago

        Amen to that.

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    • yesnomaybeso
      6 years ago

      I'd be so care to do it

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    My wife and I have been sharing with other like minding couples for years and my wife loves the experience of being used by different guys. Finding a good swingers group is the hardest as a lot are just an excuse for an orgy where the woman are treated badly and seen as easy meat to be used and abused. We have found this out in the past on a number of times where my wife has been made to do all sorts of sex acts some of which I with a very open mind found hard to accept. Watching you wife being used, abused like that is not nice. That's the negatives, find a great group and you will both have lots of enjoyment, yes you wife is going to have sex with a stranger but you can enjoy the company of a lot of nice kind people who want to sexually enjoy themselves in a safe environment. Best trying to find some good reviews of local groups on the internet and try talking to some members first, see if you can go along just to see what goes on, no participation, before committing yourself and wife. If you a happy that she is having regular sex, more often with more than one man at a meeting and she is happy you are going to do the same with another woman then go for it.

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    • Bigtittysexfreak
      6 years ago

      Thanks for the input. I am however the wife, but thank you

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      • dirtybirdy
        6 years ago

        If you can find people who respect your boundaries, go for it. I have been in monogamous relationships enough to know that I'll never do that again. I never strayed from my love, but now that I am single, I can see how people would want to be with others. As long as you both are willing, I say go for it. Just NEVER, EVER hold it against one another if it isn't what you expected.

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        • Bigtittysexfreak
          6 years ago

          Thank you for the insight!

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  • dirtybirdy
    6 years ago

    No, sorry, but swings at the playground have always been my favorite, so maybe I do have some authority on the matter..since I am a swinger of sorts...

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  • EccentricM8
    6 years ago

    Im mot an expert in swinging, but if you feel like you and your partner have enough trust and can communicate with each other well, then go for it.

    However, be careful. Don't fall for the bias under the assumption that if the other says its okay, then its okay. Sometimes we hide our feelings because we dont like saying no, etc.

    Best of luck to the both of you!

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  • RogueMadCow
    6 years ago

    If swinging, you need to choose a group in which women are respected and never forced to do anything that makes them uncomfortable.

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  • Bigtittysexfreak
    6 years ago

    Thank you I am from a littly tiny town but i will loom into it and see if theres anything near by. I didnt even know places like that existed.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    There exists a 90 percent chance that your wife will file for divorce without a swinging lifestyle. it can have little to no effect on that outcome. Knowing this in advance will help you decide is a swinging lifestyle right for you. Would having multiple sex partners enhance your life after a breakup as your wife leaves you for a richer man. It is very possible that the groups you swing with may keep you after the divorse and you can remain single with an active sexlife. Be prepared to participate in homosexuality, it will increase your marketability after a breakup and will ensure females are accessible through the male participant. Its a lifestyle not an extended marriage or marriage extender.

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