Has anyone ever held something against you and wouldn't stop?

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The title isn't being too clear, so let me explain. For example, I was in an argument with my boyfriend just recently, and in the end we concluded that he was right. The problem though, is that he holds this against me constantly. Whenever I'd bring up something to him he would say something like, " Well, what about that time we argued and we agreed I was right? ".

He would do this so many times before he'd stop. Idk what it is, but it's obvious he derives alot of pleasure in seeing me being proven wrong and I think it's immature.

Have you guys ever experienced this kind of thing?

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  • disthing
    11 years ago | pl

    Not really encountered this since leaving school.

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  • joybird
    11 years ago | pl

    Aw tell him to move on and grow up!!

    Rather you than me girl! You've just been made aware of the life you're in for if you ever marry this dick!

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  • theytookthisone
    11 years ago | pl

    yea their penis

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  • lisac1919
    11 years ago | pl

    yeah one time, when i was drawing something in art class i used tracing paper to get an idea of the right propertion to draw something at...if that makes sense...but anyways some guy thought i was using it to trace the picture and for about a YEAR he called me 'tracey' and everytime i drew something he would ask me if i traced it...he was obssesed.

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  • Ihadtomakeyetanotheraccountffs
    11 years ago | pl

    Sounds like a bit of a cunt.

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  • SoccerStud88
    11 years ago | pl

    yeh this damn girl wouldn't get off me. she kept yelling something like "oh god, oh god"

    you're talking about like physically right? (i didnt read your post btw)

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    it depends.... on what the first argument was over and why he was right... and what the second argument is over.

    i cannot take your side or his without actually knowing this.

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  • queenvagina
    11 years ago | pl

    My other half holds stuff against me like times iv let her down. Like she was in hospital nuffin mega serious. But i didnt get round to seein her and now she always brings it up if i do summat wrong n tells me i always let her down. N that was like two years ago

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Yeah this happens to me and with those same people I do it to them.

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  • Just_Another_Soul
    11 years ago | pl

    if it's a totally related topic that you argued about, then i guess he can bring it up if it was already resolved in his favor. OTHERWISE, he's being stubborn.

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  • TheHOTTIEbarhar
    11 years ago | pl

    yeh, he sounds like an immature prick. COmmunicate your frustration over this to him, and if he persists then he doesn't care much about the integrity of your relationship, right? Some people only realize what they had when they lose it.

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