Hmm. More annoying to me are the people who smuggly give "advice" that shows they don't really understand the size and shape of my problems at all. It's like; chill out on the saviour complex already, I just wanted to vent to you and have you validate my problems so I feel less insane but now you're tryna solve all my problems for me like you think you're a genius and I'm a damn kid.
Yeah, this site totally encourages that sort of rubbish. The truth of the matter is that most advice given here could have been thought up by the OP themselves without much effort, and usually it has been. Unless you're prepared to put in an unusual amount of thought and sensitivity, advice is never particularly insightful. One of the reasons I don't bother coming here much anymore.
Has anyone encountered unhelpful supportive people?
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Hmm. More annoying to me are the people who smuggly give "advice" that shows they don't really understand the size and shape of my problems at all. It's like; chill out on the saviour complex already, I just wanted to vent to you and have you validate my problems so I feel less insane but now you're tryna solve all my problems for me like you think you're a genius and I'm a damn kid.
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I know someone one here who does that.
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Yeah, this site totally encourages that sort of rubbish. The truth of the matter is that most advice given here could have been thought up by the OP themselves without much effort, and usually it has been. Unless you're prepared to put in an unusual amount of thought and sensitivity, advice is never particularly insightful. One of the reasons I don't bother coming here much anymore.