He might be, but I severely doubt it. Narcissists play for the group, they want people to like them, not hate them. So they wouldn't put themselves in such an enviroment that makes them look like a "loser" as some would put it.
Narcissists aren't emotionless, they just lack emotions for others, while are emotional about themselves.
Someone doesn't just turn in to a narcissist. If he hated himself, then that is him obviously implying that he had flaws, which led to self hate. People don't become narcissists, it progresses, it was always in the narcissist.
I don't think a narcissist would just "walk away" from confrontation, they would more so challenge the person confronting them.
Remember, narcissists want people to like them, they want people to envy and like them, not the opposite.
Take me for example; I am quite a lot of the things you listed, but by no means a narcissist.
I am "emotionless" as people say, I don't show love towards the people I know unless I want something, I spend a lot of my time trying to be perfect (It's human nature), I brag about certain things, I have engaged in quite a bit of crime that left a few victims of my crimes and don't feel remorse for them, etc.
The guy sounds like an asshole, that is obvious, but he doesn't really seem narcissistic. He doesn't fit in to what narcissists do.
Sure, he might have a large ego and is arrogant, but so are many people, that doesn't mean they're a narcissist.
Real narcissism is quite rare, but easily mistaken for someone with an ego.
So what's wrong with him? The only emotion he shows is anger. I want to read more to figure out how to deal with him but I can't figure out what sort of personality disorder he has.
He could well have a personality dissorder, but I doubt it's narcissism. He might not have one at all. No point looking in to it if you don't want any contact with him.
Despite my hate for him, I am very interested in his personality, as it is a mystery to me and others. I truly want to find out what is wrong with him. Thank you for providing me with an incentive to begin this research! :)
Meh. The fact that he is trying to say he has a personality dissorder gives me the impression that he is attention seeking. He wants to be seen as different. And by you wanting to find out about him only gives him what he wants; attention.
Sounds more like they would have Histrionic personality dissorder, that is if he has any at all. That particular personality dissorder is pretty...Patheitic in my opinion. Constantly needing attention, no matter what type of attention, be it positive or negative.
My input on this is to ignore him, either that or you give him what he wants; attention.
Has a narcissist ever apologized to you?
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He might be, but I severely doubt it. Narcissists play for the group, they want people to like them, not hate them. So they wouldn't put themselves in such an enviroment that makes them look like a "loser" as some would put it.
Narcissists aren't emotionless, they just lack emotions for others, while are emotional about themselves.
Someone doesn't just turn in to a narcissist. If he hated himself, then that is him obviously implying that he had flaws, which led to self hate. People don't become narcissists, it progresses, it was always in the narcissist.
I don't think a narcissist would just "walk away" from confrontation, they would more so challenge the person confronting them.
Remember, narcissists want people to like them, they want people to envy and like them, not the opposite.
Take me for example; I am quite a lot of the things you listed, but by no means a narcissist.
I am "emotionless" as people say, I don't show love towards the people I know unless I want something, I spend a lot of my time trying to be perfect (It's human nature), I brag about certain things, I have engaged in quite a bit of crime that left a few victims of my crimes and don't feel remorse for them, etc.
The guy sounds like an asshole, that is obvious, but he doesn't really seem narcissistic. He doesn't fit in to what narcissists do.
Sure, he might have a large ego and is arrogant, but so are many people, that doesn't mean they're a narcissist.
Real narcissism is quite rare, but easily mistaken for someone with an ego.
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So what's wrong with him? The only emotion he shows is anger. I want to read more to figure out how to deal with him but I can't figure out what sort of personality disorder he has.
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He could well have a personality dissorder, but I doubt it's narcissism. He might not have one at all. No point looking in to it if you don't want any contact with him.
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Meh. The fact that he is trying to say he has a personality dissorder gives me the impression that he is attention seeking. He wants to be seen as different. And by you wanting to find out about him only gives him what he wants; attention.
Sounds more like they would have Histrionic personality dissorder, that is if he has any at all. That particular personality dissorder is pretty...Patheitic in my opinion. Constantly needing attention, no matter what type of attention, be it positive or negative.
My input on this is to ignore him, either that or you give him what he wants; attention.