I would suggest you stop pressuring him and get a vibrator to ease the frustration for now. Try cooling the anxiety down and be patient. When it is no longer a major issue, try talking to him about it then. Ask him what would interest and stimulate him, find out if he is stressed at work etc.
3 times a month isn't that bad, I've only had full sex twice in the last 3 months but there has been a lot of stress around. Personally for me I find sex a great release for tension, but my partner doesn't.
hardly ever have sex in our 20's
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I would suggest you stop pressuring him and get a vibrator to ease the frustration for now. Try cooling the anxiety down and be patient. When it is no longer a major issue, try talking to him about it then. Ask him what would interest and stimulate him, find out if he is stressed at work etc.
3 times a month isn't that bad, I've only had full sex twice in the last 3 months but there has been a lot of stress around. Personally for me I find sex a great release for tension, but my partner doesn't.