Hard to orgasm unless i think about being taken advantage of.

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I take it, it's not normal. But does anyone else have any experiences of this. It is very easy to orgasm when I fantasize of someone who loves me and is overcome by lust so that they can't think straight and rape me. I don't like the idea of just brutal rape. It's very rare for me to orgasm during sex. If I think of being taken advantage of...then I can. So I know I'm fucked up. Any thoughts?

I feel like this, it's normal 7
You have been abused and have issues, see a shrink 4
I feel this way too, don't know if it's normal 0
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  • sillygirl77
    9 years ago

    Hey as long its consensual and sounds fine to me. The idea of being taken like that can be hot and fantasizing its by force is fine. Whatever gets you off as long as it's consenting adults.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Ok thanks for the reply. Yes its def consenting adults, I would never want to be actually raped, that would be horrible.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago

        Your comment is contradictory to your post. I think you need to understand the difference between rape and roleplay.
        Roleplay is normal but rape is not. Also people do not rape those they love. That is contradictory as well. You may also need to understand the difference of love and lust.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    9 years ago

    I don't see how what I said is a contradiction.

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  • caro29
    9 years ago

    Well, that isn't the only way I can have an orgasm,but it's always been a fantasy of mine as well. I never knew anyone suitable for the role until I met my husband,and after awhile I casually mentioned that I would like him to "rape"me.so one night, out of nowhere he grabs me, ties me up and blindfolds me, and does this whole thing like he's my kidnapper and I have to do whatever he wants.it was WAY better than my fantasy! But it was only great because we love each other and I trust him.rape and domination fantasies are very common, if not normal. If you find someone to act it out with, great! Just be sure of the person you're doing it with,and set up a safeword so you can stop if it gets out of hand.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      My thoughts exactly, thank you,

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