Harassed a friend online due to jealousy and anger

After I had a falling out with her my relations begun to fall apart and I couldn't help but try to find someone to blame. Seeing her successful relations only made me more mad. But keep in mind harassment can be construed as a crime so not sure if it's normal.

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25% Normal
Based on 20 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 9 )
  • charli.m

    Get your shit together, you cowardly loser.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    You couldn't help but find someone to blame? Actually, you could. Of course it's not normal to harass someone for being more successful.

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  • Memer666

    You sound like a horrible person. You should not harass anyone.

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  • Boojum

    "Harassment" covers a wide range of activities, some of which are definitely considered a crime. Even if what you did isn't severe enough to be considered criminal, scapegoating someone is never a positive way to deal with a problem.

    It is unfortunately pretty common for people who are miserable to resent those who seem to be happy, and to want them to be miserable too. So what you did is pretty "normal" in that sense, but it's not healthy, since it doesn't address the problems that made you unhappy in the first place.

    What you did isn't good, but it is good that you seem to have some gained some insight into why you did it, and to now understand it wasn't right.

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    • seldiora

      yeah, that makes sense. With this and my other post, she states it's too much pressure and she wants out on this relation. I just hope she'll forgive me.

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  • Threshold

    You sound like you really need help. Your reaction is normal, but by no means am I condoning it - you should probably find a healthier way to purge your emotions such as telling your parents or someone you trust how you feel.

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  • darncorn

    May be normal depends what you mean by harrassment

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  • fakeaccount2

    Hahaha,Lots of guys have done this too me. I would have sympathy for their apparent mental illness that would cause someone to be like that, but they don't have the capacity to see outside their own feelings, so fuck em. Depends want you did but at least you seem to have some remorse

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  • deepdrowning

    This sounds exactly like what happened to me. It might be normal but that doesn't make it ok. When it happened to me, it was a very taxing week of holding him off. Please don't do this to people.

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