Had sex to get over someone

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i was seeing this guy for bout 3 months then he became distant because he thought i was seeing someone else, after i reassured him that i was never seeing him. he still wasnt the same.
i then went out to a party and he was there he completely ignored me. and ther was another guy ther, and he started kissing me.
the next day i was upset that i ruined everything between him.
but i couldnt get over him about a month later the guy i hooked up with started texting me. next thing we had sex.
now when i go out with my friends he starts telling my friends what happened.
i regret it that much that i've only told 2 of my close friends. but not my bestfriend who i share everything with.
the other night i went to the pub and the guy who i had sex was ther, and i was sitting with my bestfriend next thing he comes up to me and starts talking to me, so i start talking to him back being nice, but then he started getting close with one of my good friends and kinda says really loud 'hey chloe shaggin waggin again'
i look over at my bestfriend and she storms off. then i walk up to him and say i only had sex with you to get over the guy and i asked you not to say anything, just shut up.
as i walked away i look back and hes hooking up with my other close girlfriend.

i know i dug myself in a hole, but i now i cant even yell out for my bestfriend to help me.

is it normal to feel free but to feel so trapped in feelings, so you use sex as an escape for the feelings that are hurting you.

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Based on 81 votes (52 yes)
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Comments ( 22 )
  • Yorker2005
    13 years ago

    Using sex to get over someone is very selfesh and can hurt a lot of people.

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  • darren3
    13 years ago

    You sound immature.

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  • rayst
    13 years ago

    Lol what a dick

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Holy smokes, too much drama for my liking! Try and talk it over with your girl friends, don't worry about the ex bf or this dick head you slept with, your gfs are what is important here. Good luck. :-)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      why thank you :)
      hahaha there is way to much drama. nahh my bestfriend won't listen to me, she believes that its only right to have sex with a guy that your with. so i've pretty much f'ed that over
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  • khkk
    13 years ago

    what a skank, why dont you screw a few more guys so pretty soon it all becomes a haze

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    slut

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  • chewy
    13 years ago

    are you hot though?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      wouldnt you like to know

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      • chewy
        13 years ago

        maybeeeeeeeee :)

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          13 years ago

          ;)

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          • chewy
            13 years ago

            to be honest i wouldnt date a hot girl who is a complete bitch it just wouldnt be worth my time

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              12 years ago

              ummm well good for you, needless to say, you don't know who i am, and i dont know who you are, so why the hell would i care who you date?

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  • joelsmo
    13 years ago

    The only thing you can do is learn your lessons in life. Going out and having sex just to get over someone else does not work. There is little you can do but if it will make you feel better tell everyone the big mouth has a tiny dick and is lousy in bed, then maybe he won't want to brag so much. It is also obvious by this story that you just may be too young to even be having sex yet anyway.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      i'm actually 18. but thanks :)

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  • syriandiamond
    13 years ago

    It is an escape, but definitely not a healthy one.

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  • edtoe
    13 years ago

    This girl that lives next door comes over here every time she gets mad at her husband and lets me give her oral sex just to gat at her husband.

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  • crookedtoothloser
    13 years ago

    It's perfectly normal. I wish I had done it.

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  • Penguin_pie
    13 years ago

    absolutely. After my ex of 4 years and I broke up, I slept with guys I previously dated...I think it was just for fun/to feel attractive (because I felt rejected from the breakup), and just something to keep me from thinking about my ex. It's a distraction, and a lot of people do it. It's completely normal....Not saying it's a good idea, but it's normal.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      thank you :)

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  • cintaindonesia
    13 years ago

    I did it and it worked

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