Yes, absolutely. I had a few dates with a girl who was a dress size 28. That was all people ever focussed on but she was funny, and pretty, and we saw strange films together and then talked about them until the small hours. That's the bit I focussed on. I've been in longer relationships with people who were technically overweight, but they didn't look it to my eyes. They were just curvy.
Well I probably wouldn't date someone who was huge/obese. It's not like I'm forced to choose or die. I'd just look for someone else. Generally I wouldn't mind/would prefer the bigger women, but there are limits.
...why are you so obsessed with me wanting 'the perfect body'? I just would rather choose someone who wasn't obese. You really think an obese woman is going to lose all that weight? Most likely not.
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The bigger girl. You'd still have great sex, but you'd also have fun when you're not in bed. Win-win situation.
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But do you actually ever go for the bigger girl?
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Yes, absolutely. I had a few dates with a girl who was a dress size 28. That was all people ever focussed on but she was funny, and pretty, and we saw strange films together and then talked about them until the small hours. That's the bit I focussed on. I've been in longer relationships with people who were technically overweight, but they didn't look it to my eyes. They were just curvy.
Exactly, I mean unless she's like obese.
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But don't forget obesity can change...
but can you fix a bad personality?
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Well I probably wouldn't date someone who was huge/obese. It's not like I'm forced to choose or die. I'd just look for someone else. Generally I wouldn't mind/would prefer the bigger women, but there are limits.
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Of course the other thing to consider is that a body will change as you age or as life happens.
for example many women do not regain their figures after childbirth, at least not right away, and it takes work.
injuries can also change a body type as well. or medical conditions
So even if she has a perfect body today it doesn't mean she'll have one forever.
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...why are you so obsessed with me wanting 'the perfect body'? I just would rather choose someone who wasn't obese. You really think an obese woman is going to lose all that weight? Most likely not.
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actually it's more likely than a personality change.