We don't like being talked at or told a bunch of shit we don't care about. If that happens we shut down and go into "yeah.. yeah", "oh that's great" agreement mode. We stopped listening at that point so you're basically talking to yourself.
If you're angry at a guy, tell him something and he immediately agrees with you, you can be sure that he told you what you want to hear so the argument can stop. A bit like the "yes dear" of the husband to his wife because he knows arguing with her will mean an unhappy household for weeks. But we don't actually agree with you; it's just to avoid an argument.
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We don't like being talked at or told a bunch of shit we don't care about. If that happens we shut down and go into "yeah.. yeah", "oh that's great" agreement mode. We stopped listening at that point so you're basically talking to yourself.
If you're angry at a guy, tell him something and he immediately agrees with you, you can be sure that he told you what you want to hear so the argument can stop. A bit like the "yes dear" of the husband to his wife because he knows arguing with her will mean an unhappy household for weeks. But we don't actually agree with you; it's just to avoid an argument.
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I see that's pretty helpful advice next time I get into an argument or rant to a guy