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I hear of other women saying how a guy left their phone number but this absolutely never happens to me. Is this a sign I am ugly?
Most guys are terrified of rejection. The most ballsie of us leave a number or ask directly. You probably haven’t run across any people that could stand rejection. Best case scenario you look so far out of thier league they just don’t ask.
(man commenting by the way)
Never judge yourself based on how other people are treated, those girls might get more numbers but they also attract a lot of bad attention, they struggle to find nice decent boyfriends because they attract only those after sex and nothing more.
If you meet a guy you really like, ask for his number instead? If he says yes and talks to you after that then surely that means he was just unconfident and didn't want to ask.
It may also be that you haven't met the right guy yet who likes you enough to want to start anything, like I said before pretty girls won't attract the right guy.
If you're sleeping with someone and you don't even have their number yet then don't expect them to get in touch ever again.
I'm not being judgemental btw - I used to bang strangers on the regular in my younger days, it's all good. I'm just saying that if you want something more than a one night stand then keep your clothes on during the first meeting. Make them work for it.
The first several meetings. Easy women can be fun but you don't buy the cow if you get the milk for free. My dad's saying.
I slept with my now husband on the fourth date (and I mean proper date, not fourth time I bumped into him whilst on a night out drunk...). That was huge for me. My usual trope was to sleep with someone on the first encounter and then never speak to them again, just totally ghost them. But he was different. I fell for him the first time I met him and suddenly the sex part actually meant something to me. I knew if he never called me back I'd be heartbroken so I waited until I felt like I could trust him.
I think a lot of people have stopped doing this now. We've told the younger generation that it's liberating to fuck everything in site without a second thought, and it's anti feminist to suggest otherwise. This is all well and good if all you're interested in is sex, but for people who are growing out of that stage and looking for more it's actually quite damaging because they've never learnt how to date properly without it ending in sex, and everyone seems to expect sex almost straight away. It's skewed people's view of what a relationship should look like. The rules have gone out of the window and along with it the respect of dating and getting to know someone before you sleep together.
(Btw I'm aware that four dates isn't a long time - it just felt like it to me and everyone around me because it's unusual to wait at all anymore)
I doubt guys leaving their numbers is an issue of beauty..Nah,the people termed as "ugly" still have people who are interested in them..I believe It's more of how you socialize and relate with people..maybe you should work on your verbal and nonverbal skills..don't be socially awkward or irrelevant..most importantly stop expecting too much from strangers,you'll be happier!
Well I'd say you're probably not THAT hot for males to leave their numbers. But hey--dont look down on yourself and think this is a sign of your *ugliness*. In real life, we are all not THAT hot. Try this instead: ask for THEIR social accounts, facebook, insta, etc.
Did you give them sex? If not then that is likely why they didn't leave you their numbers. If you did and still didn't get them then maybe it is just a simple case of being too ugly.
I would give you my number, but you probably wouldn't want it. No girl seems to. Life is sad when you can't get it up.
(I’m a girl btw) what some other person commented is probably right about you being way too far out of guys leagues that they’re terrified of you rejecting them. You’re honestly probably too pretty. Most of my mediocre looking friends get guys to talk to them more easily than some of my gorgeous friends, guys are just scared
I've only been approached in person 3 times, one by a pimply kid. The 2 other were 50 year old men. All 3 were actually pretty sweet. You could tell they didn't ask anyone often, fekt bad turning them down
Stop asking this! Where were you expecting a guy leave his number? way too vague.
It's a sign, but there are bigger signs. Do you have any facial features that are out of proportion? How do you look in photos? It could be nothing.
There are some humans who shouldn't exist, that is one of them, ignore anything he says... Search what is a troll