Guys my age don't look at me in the eyes or talk to me much?

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When I'm at work i notice older men than me like 45-55 flirt with me half of the time but men around 25-35 rarely look at me nor talk to me.

I'll try to make conversation and they'll look away and just say yes no okay and act like they don't like me at all. Constantly makes me feel like I'm a weirdo or something's on my face...I don't think I'm unattractive, I think I'm alright and when I've asked some of my friends if something's weird about my looks they just laugh and tell me I can't be serious

I'm 28 , female and I just don't know if this is normal or what that men my age don't look or want anything to do with me?

The only problem is my teeth are slightly crooked but not massively so..

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  • Faceless
    4 years ago | pl

    I hate looking at people in the eye when i talk to them. So i look them in their stupid mouth. I dont even care if theyre a gift horse or not. To be kind of serious once i went a whole month without seeing any 20 year olds around the city. It was like they were all at school or something. But it was probably just me. So it could all be in ur crazy head. OK? ok.

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    • perfectxsilence
      4 years ago

      You okay there pal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    You know what I'm going to say!! Picture and I can honestly give you my opinion. I am a strait male in the age bracket you want.

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  • SkullsNRoses
    4 years ago

    Normal, young men are riddled with confidence issues but older ones who have been rejected dozens/hundreds of times are normally past caring and will flirt with any attractive woman.

    If you like a younger guy your best bet is to make the first move yourself.

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  • notsaying4life
    4 years ago

    I heard people look at your eyes when they like you or are saying the truth but truth is there are people like me who can never look at people in the eye no matter the situation it’s really really uncomfortable for some of us

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    • SkullsNRoses
      4 years ago

      If you look at someone’s eyebrows it looks to them like you’re looking in their eyes.

      This is what I do, eye contact is weird.

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    • CoffeeTime
      4 years ago

      As they say, the eyes are magnetic. For some, it creates a personal connection when they look into other's eyes when they talk. It feels awkward if they're not close to eachother.

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  • jethro
    4 years ago

    Thank the #metoo people for that.

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  • trexagireve
    4 years ago

    Maybe they are not mature enough to see your beauty,

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    When I'm very attracted to someone and I know there is no possibility of anything ever coming of it I find it very difficult to look at them or have eye contact because I know it will be written all over my face and it's embarrassing

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    4 years ago

    At least you don't have teenagers hitting on you. I'm 30 and that shit has gotten annoying already.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Teens are typically shy that I encounter. I have been hit on by someone as young as 18 though

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        4 years ago

        That's good they don't bother you. XD

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  • Columbusbiguy
    4 years ago

    I dont believe a lot of this generation, and youngr, she is refering to have practiced or developed good communication skils. Most of their communication is done via some social media, even when they are in the same room. Even when they are talking to one another, their heads are buried in their devices. I think it is uncomfortable for them. The older people you speak of grew up speaking and interacting personally with each other, so it more normal for them to look you in the eyes.

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  • Bazinga
    4 years ago

    Hmmmm. You have got to learn to work with the guys you've got. If they're avoiding eye contact, so what. Change your stance, posture and expressions to match their mirror image gestures. For example, they rotate to the left, you rotate to the right like their mirror image would. They back up a bit, you back up like their mirror image would.

    Google up, "mirror image flirting", and remember - their comfort zone depends on just the right touch from you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    I try to always look people in the eye when I speak to them.

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