There are times when you simply prefer a wank, absolutely-and there's nothing wrong with that, but these are times when she would rather have sex. That changes things, I think. I would care a lot if my partner felt forced to masturbate instead of having sex with me because of something I could fix. I'd feel bad for not meeting their needs. I'm sure they feel pretty bad too-rejected, ignored, unimportant?
I've had a similar problem too a few months back with my boyfriend. It wasn't just that he wanted to wank every so often, it's that he completely lost interest in me. Maybe it is something you can fix, so I suggest telling her your worries to make sure there isn't a problem. I wouldn't worry unless this happens over and over though.
Guys, how would you feel if you discovered your gf was doing this?
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There are times when you simply prefer a wank, absolutely-and there's nothing wrong with that, but these are times when she would rather have sex. That changes things, I think. I would care a lot if my partner felt forced to masturbate instead of having sex with me because of something I could fix. I'd feel bad for not meeting their needs. I'm sure they feel pretty bad too-rejected, ignored, unimportant?
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I've had a similar problem too a few months back with my boyfriend. It wasn't just that he wanted to wank every so often, it's that he completely lost interest in me. Maybe it is something you can fix, so I suggest telling her your worries to make sure there isn't a problem. I wouldn't worry unless this happens over and over though.