They tell you you're perfect because there is nothing wrong with you. A size is just a size and that's that. I know guys who are really into fairly large women, I know others who are shallow and only go for skinny girls. I know some who will take what they can get.
For me it's more if I can connect or not. Sometimes someone likes you and they feel more like a family member to you than a special someone. For others you spend all night talking about stuff that doesn't matter and enjoy the moment, and you feel like life was empty without them.
Idk long story short I guess it isn't a cookie cutter science of "Be this weight people will like you" or "Act this way and people will like you". If you haven't found someone yet it's just because you haven't found him yet. But he's out there, just keep looking ;).
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They tell you you're perfect because there is nothing wrong with you. A size is just a size and that's that. I know guys who are really into fairly large women, I know others who are shallow and only go for skinny girls. I know some who will take what they can get.
For me it's more if I can connect or not. Sometimes someone likes you and they feel more like a family member to you than a special someone. For others you spend all night talking about stuff that doesn't matter and enjoy the moment, and you feel like life was empty without them.
Idk long story short I guess it isn't a cookie cutter science of "Be this weight people will like you" or "Act this way and people will like you". If you haven't found someone yet it's just because you haven't found him yet. But he's out there, just keep looking ;).