Well, i cant get one...people, guys, tell me all the time 'you are perfect!' but they dont like my body. If i was skinny i coyld be the girl next door...but at a size 16-18 and at 200 pounds i just dont make the cut...
They tell you you're perfect because there is nothing wrong with you. A size is just a size and that's that. I know guys who are really into fairly large women, I know others who are shallow and only go for skinny girls. I know some who will take what they can get.
For me it's more if I can connect or not. Sometimes someone likes you and they feel more like a family member to you than a special someone. For others you spend all night talking about stuff that doesn't matter and enjoy the moment, and you feel like life was empty without them.
Idk long story short I guess it isn't a cookie cutter science of "Be this weight people will like you" or "Act this way and people will like you". If you haven't found someone yet it's just because you haven't found him yet. But he's out there, just keep looking ;).
It's alright... I worry about my size, too, but a guy likes a girl who is comfortable with her own body and doesn't worry about it. They like confident girls who aren't afraid about her appearance.
Plus, nothing's impossible (except some stuff like breeding a unicorn and a Charizard)! I'm sure you CAN get one! Come on! They say, "You're prefect!" That's a compliment! Take it and the dude!
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Well, i cant get one...people, guys, tell me all the time 'you are perfect!' but they dont like my body. If i was skinny i coyld be the girl next door...but at a size 16-18 and at 200 pounds i just dont make the cut...
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They tell you you're perfect because there is nothing wrong with you. A size is just a size and that's that. I know guys who are really into fairly large women, I know others who are shallow and only go for skinny girls. I know some who will take what they can get.
For me it's more if I can connect or not. Sometimes someone likes you and they feel more like a family member to you than a special someone. For others you spend all night talking about stuff that doesn't matter and enjoy the moment, and you feel like life was empty without them.
Idk long story short I guess it isn't a cookie cutter science of "Be this weight people will like you" or "Act this way and people will like you". If you haven't found someone yet it's just because you haven't found him yet. But he's out there, just keep looking ;).
It's alright... I worry about my size, too, but a guy likes a girl who is comfortable with her own body and doesn't worry about it. They like confident girls who aren't afraid about her appearance.
Plus, nothing's impossible (except some stuff like breeding a unicorn and a Charizard)! I'm sure you CAN get one! Come on! They say, "You're prefect!" That's a compliment! Take it and the dude!
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No i really cant...its something about my body they dpnt like...