Guys after my girlfriend

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there is alot of guys after my girlfriend but she won't let met talk to them she prefers to take care of them herself instead of letting me do it.

this one guy even asked her to send her pictures of my girlfriend naked and i went nuts and i know its normal to go nuts. She would not let me talk to him i don't think this is normal

after like 3 months of this guy sending her pics of his dick and begging her to go out with him she finally let me take care of him but i swear i have to fight these off too much.

Another example my girlfriend and me got mad and she went to work mad and talked to one of her co workers and she left him with the impression that she was extremly mad and a couple days later he im'ed her and they had a normal talk for about a minute. Then he asked her so how are things between you and your bf and she obviously replied we are great and he just never replied after that. I mean seriously is that alll they care about? getting with her?

Another thing would be that we would be driving through a construction site and the guys like stare at her

but my question is it normal that she won't let me talk to the guys who pest her and hit on her [which is nearly every guy she knows]

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Comments ( 19 )
  • jas07
    13 years ago

    Ya she likes the attention from other guys, all pretty girls do! It will NEVER change so get used to it or talk to her!! I was in the same situation and the only reAson I let other guys hit on me was because I never herd it enough from my own bf so it was nice to hear from other people take it from someone who knows what there talking about!!!

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    • jonvenom
      13 years ago

      well then she wants to hear it like every other minute then cause im always telling her how beautiful she is and how some of her shirts bring out her beautiful blue eyes. or that she has a pretty smile. or just saying hey baby you look gorgeous today and give her a kiss i mean if im not flattering her now i need to like step it up to like a comment in between every sentence

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Every guy she knows is hitting on her? And so you feel you must step in? Oh please ... this is the oldest drama in town.

    This game is intended to impress you with her DESIRABILITY. There's nothing much to it. Ratchet the dorky jealousy down a notch or two.

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    so what's your gf's screename/phone number?

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  • EbonyMT
    13 years ago

    Did you pick her up from a strip club?

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  • lmn
    13 years ago

    If men are coming on to her it really is her job to deal with it. Letting them know they have no chance and they need to back off. (I'm not trying to be rude but you wanting to "handle it" will only make you look like you're not confident in your relationship and a little pathetic). My ex always liked it when men hit on me because he knew I shut them down immediately. However your girlfriend doesn't seem to do this. Your concern should be that she let's the situation drag out and continue much longer than necessary. The guy with the text messages should have been put in his place by HER a long time ago.

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    • jonvenom
      13 years ago

      he was but he kept coming back until i put my foot down

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  • combatgal856
    13 years ago

    She obviously isn't leaving her past behind since she has shared hsitory with these guys, because of this she may feel like this is her problem and thereofre she wants to sort it. The question is though, how is she sorting it?

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  • LoveYouBabe
    13 years ago

    I think she wants to take care of her problems by herself. Yeah every guy likes her, that just makes you that more special right? :) good luck!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    She doesn't want you talking to them because she's cheating on you with them, duh

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Yea my gf is hot too aha it sux

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  • DrinaVonCheez
    12 years ago

    Don't worry about it too much. Girls at least like to TRY to handle situations for themselves.
    Like if a guy is hollin' at me..instant shut down.
    However I kinda like it if my bf at least says something like "she's taken. Back off."

    As far as 'fighting', I wouldn't want you to do that either. I guess its like an "i don't want you to get hurt" kinda thing. Plus its dramatic -_-

    I think yo chick needs to consider changing her phone number.

    But if it continues to get outta hand...

    WHOOP DAT TRICK!

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  • jonvenom
    13 years ago

    let me add a bit of detail the guy who asked her to send pics of herself was her ex/bestfriend from when they were young

    the one who kept sending pics was a guy she kissed but never dated in highschool

    and the guy who hit on her well hes just some guy she met at work

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    And jas07 is right. I agree 100% with them.

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  • yayasaga
    13 years ago

    I think it comes down to the amount if respect she has for you. They will only respect you and your relationship as much as she does. That's the truth. She probably doesn't show you that much respect when your not around and other men are.

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  • jonvenom
    13 years ago

    no she moved out from the country into a highschool class and we met from there

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  • jonvenom
    13 years ago

    no no no thad and jaso you got it all wrong they are aware of my existence. they know im HER boyfriend but knowingly they still try shit

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  • jas07
    13 years ago

    If she doesn't want u talk to them it's because she doesn't want to known as your girlfriend, she likes the attention from other guys and she wants to seem avaible and when your around her it makes her seem non avaible. She obviously has some issues with herself maybe she taking the way she looks for gratend and thinks her looks can make her get away with stuff. Don't let her fool you, let her know how you feel and maybe sit down and have a somewhat of a serious convo about it because if u don't say anything it's only going to get worse and could possibly cause a bad breakup. If shes worth the efffort to work on totally go for it and maybe pay more attention to her and let her know u love her for her beauty within

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  • TheGuruOfTheSauce
    13 years ago

    shut up shut up shuddap!! this puppy love is making me earth sick. I hope to God she's cheating on you, "take care of them"? You can't even take care of your girlfriend or yourself for that matter rather than threatening people little man why don't you dump your hoe gf before you catch a STD death sentence

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