See, that's the problem right there. No wonder girls go for bad guys when good guys can't even approach us. I'm not saying this to be mean to any of you. On the contrary, I want you all to understand something here. If you plan to approach a girl, approach her. We would rather have a guy approach us (even if he blushes, is super shy, whatever it may be); regardless of his being insecure about asking us out.
I mean, some girls aren't confident; some cannot wait to be noticed or asked out. It is tough for us too. While beauty plays a role, don't judge based on someone's looks (looks are decieving). I approached a guy once and he rejected me; it was horrible (I was 100% sure that he liked me). He was playing a game to boost his ego. I would approach a guy again if I happen to like him. Sure, nervousness plays its part in these things, but so what? When I fall, I fall hard.
Clearly, you think the worst possible things of yourselves. Let me tell you, you are worthy of love. If you are looking for a true relationship, you will find it. All you have to do is to give it a try. That sounds like a lot, doesn't it?
For once in my life, I would love a man to take charge and take it out into the open and tell me whatever it is he wants to tell me. I couldn't care less if he is nervous as hell. If you step over all that is holding you back just to talk to me, that is a step forward.
In the mean time, if you think that you need to 'fix' something about yourself then do so. If you think that there is nothing to 'fix', then don't you dare say that you aren't worthy, and that she will just say no. Read some tips on approaching girls, work on that. When something is of great importance to you, go and get it.
Guys - Why Do You Get Approach Anxiety?
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See, that's the problem right there. No wonder girls go for bad guys when good guys can't even approach us. I'm not saying this to be mean to any of you. On the contrary, I want you all to understand something here. If you plan to approach a girl, approach her. We would rather have a guy approach us (even if he blushes, is super shy, whatever it may be); regardless of his being insecure about asking us out.
I mean, some girls aren't confident; some cannot wait to be noticed or asked out. It is tough for us too. While beauty plays a role, don't judge based on someone's looks (looks are decieving). I approached a guy once and he rejected me; it was horrible (I was 100% sure that he liked me). He was playing a game to boost his ego. I would approach a guy again if I happen to like him. Sure, nervousness plays its part in these things, but so what? When I fall, I fall hard.
Clearly, you think the worst possible things of yourselves. Let me tell you, you are worthy of love. If you are looking for a true relationship, you will find it. All you have to do is to give it a try. That sounds like a lot, doesn't it?
For once in my life, I would love a man to take charge and take it out into the open and tell me whatever it is he wants to tell me. I couldn't care less if he is nervous as hell. If you step over all that is holding you back just to talk to me, that is a step forward.
In the mean time, if you think that you need to 'fix' something about yourself then do so. If you think that there is nothing to 'fix', then don't you dare say that you aren't worthy, and that she will just say no. Read some tips on approaching girls, work on that. When something is of great importance to you, go and get it.
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Great reply. Thanks so much.
well put