Guy who is interested in me has persisted after being rejected twice

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This guy who is interested in me has continued to make advances at me after being rejected twice. He has tried showering me with gifts, sending flowers with a romantic note attached, and making jokes about sexual acts against me and created a nickname out of it.

He told me he wanted to stay friends but I feel like he's still hoping for something more no matter what I say.

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Based on 18 votes (6 yes)
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  • GeekyGold
    3 years ago

    If you really want him to stop I think it’s best to cut him off, but if you don’t want to then say you’re in a relationship. For some reason some men don’t respect a woman enough to leave her alone when she says no, but stops when they find out she’s in a relationship as if they respect her partner more than her. It’s gross but a truth

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  • YE
    3 years ago

    Sounds like you're dealing with a 'Gorilla Glue Romantic', he don't move!

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    • 1WeirdGuy
      3 years ago

      This is the life she livin now

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    3 years ago

    Just cut all contact with him. Staying friends is only going to give that pathetic bitch false hope. XD

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    He's too creepy, and obviously to much into harassing you to make any kind of good friend! He's probably well on his way to turning into a full on stalker. This guy lacks respect for you, and is only interested in getting what he wants. I think that the best course of action is to cut all ties with him.

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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    Have you told him you aren't in any way interested in him?

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  • ellnell
    3 years ago

    That's typical men unfortunately. Happens a lot.
    You probably shouldn't be friends with this guy, why even be friends with someone who doesn't respect your feelings? He's a bad friend and would be a bad boyfriend too since he doesn't care how you feel. Tell him that you would not like any further contact and block him if you have to.

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  • [Old Memory]
    3 years ago

    Eh. If you're uncomfortable with his acts then you need to either make it (more) known or simply cut off the friendship if you genuinely have given him proper warnings to stop.

    If you have accepted his gifts without outright giving them back to him as a display of there being no chance then he may still think there is a chance and you've made that thought possible.

    Yes, he's going to hope that one day you change your mind, rejecting him isn't just going to get him to stop his romantic feelings towards you. If he is unwilling to take the hint while remaining friends then you need to ditch the friendship not only for your personal benefit but it would also be the best way for him to get over his romantic feelings for you due to the degree of separation, and who knows, maybe one day when he's over you the friendship can continue without the romance aspect.

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  • Mini69
    3 years ago

    He sounds a bit creepy. Tell him to stay away, if he doesn’t stop tell him you will report him for stalking if he continues.

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