Guy likes me but he didn't split with his fiance yet? normal?

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I guess they were together 12 years. Hes interested in me but they got engaged 2 years ago. I told him to leave her and just walk away we will have a good time she's also boring anyway she reads books, is nerdy goes to stupid science festivals and collects vinyl records. Really old school.

Anyway we have been talking over a month now. I really want him but I hate how he's still not told her he's done. She still thinks they're fine although he's ignoring her a little more, whoopey.

Normal he hasn't split yet??

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    Totally normal, because he's never gonna leave her, and he's just using you for sex. Being the other woman is one of the worst things you can choose to be. You brought this on yourself.

    If you are smart you will leave him alone and leave this situation.

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    • McBean
      5 years ago

      Yes, leave the situation, and find a new fuck buddy. She needs a partner skilled in the carnal arts because sex seems to be a priority for her. Not to worry, a few of the girls were just born that way.

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  • _Mehhhh_
    5 years ago

    Even if he did leave her, odds are he'll only find a new side chick once you become the main one.

    Go find a single man who isn't caught up with these issues.

    And I'm not saying this to defend him, he's a piece of shit, but if you had any self-respect for yourself as a woman you wouldn't give married men your attention. This generation has a lot of men in it who I don't think are "real men". However, they're that way because a lot of women tolerate them being like that, instead of having standards about who they give access to their wombs.

    Harsh talk but it's how I feel.

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  • Kholden
    5 years ago

    I agree with RoseI. I have many married relationship's with woman on the side and have been looking at this and many other dynamics involving such relationships, going on at my work that has about 500 people in it. I have heard from a couple of their mouths that they will tell the other woman whatever she wants to hear, just to keep getting the sex. Very few do I see last year's before finally splitting. Ask yourself if you are important or have standards in any way, and that shall be the answer to your question.

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Why should he split? You think a man would give up a stable home life with a loyal book-smart girl he can count on until old age, for a young hoe who thinks reading is boring? Fuuuuuuuck no!! You're his side-chick, so learn your place. You're ass and titties! He's going to string you along for YEARS if he can.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      A young hoe who thinks reading is boring - that sums up OP up pretty right.

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    He's a terrible person for cheating.
    You're a terrible person for going after someone who's taken. Shame on you.

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