Guy i like texted me

Tonight he texted me

"I'm falling asleep so I'm gonna say good night to you now. Have a good night, ttyl"

Then I see 20 mins later he goes BACK ONLINE and comments on some female friends photo on FB then she comments back and he replies. And stays online for an hour past the time he said good night to me.

Does this mean he's not interested in me?? I don't get good morning texts but he does text me at least 5 days a week.

What do you think? Is this normal to say good night then talk to other people??

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Based on 28 votes (19 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • Nikclaire

    Relax before you become a stalker. He just said good night.

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  • Boojum

    You checking up on him is more than a little creepy, but yeah - he told you he was going to sleep, then he didn't, and so he clearly lied to you.

    It's not a enormous lie, and we all know how 'just one more thing...' on social media can keep us down that rabbit hole for a lot longer than we intended. Still, I think you can safely assume that you are far from being the most important person he knows.

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    • Oh I didn't do it on purpose, just saw him still showing up as online then his post appeared on my timeline but yeah I guess you're right, I probably don't mean much to him. I think he only texts me every day because he's bored and I'm nice. Thanks for honesty

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  • Ummitsstillme

    Dont obsess over him. Maybe he tried to sleep and couldn't

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  • strawberryfieldsforever

    I do this sometimes but I can see where you're coming from bc I feel that way when the guy I like does it to me. Don't worry about it too much some people just get all their texting out of the way then scroll through fb/insta to help them fall asleep.

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  • Clunk42

    "Falling asleep" doesn't necessarily mean falling asleep. He could just mean he was going to bed. Anyway, I am currently in the process of falling asleep right now. When I go to bed I check Is It Normal and then watch Youtube Videos until I fall asleep.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Don't put all your eggs in this basket. He might be a playa playa, but then again he might have just fell down another one of the many rabbit holes on the internet. I wouldn't let it upset me too much if I were you. Just be chill, don't go out of your way to monitor this guy, or turn down any other opportunities that might arise either. Just be chill, and take things slowly. Don't be in a rush to give your heart away.

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    • mauzi

      They must be pretty young. I would say that freaking out over him talking to someone else is more of a red flag than his "lie", especially since it sounds like he's just not that interested in her.

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  • Ichabuskene

    Do not invest in this guy.

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    • Sounds like a player right? So I'm not paranoid?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Possibly.

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  • cupcake_wants

    Don't have sex with him

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  • BleedingPain

    I have a friend who is kind of similar. He will make the rounds of saying goodnight to several people before actually going to bed. He has to do the rounds but I also know that he is talking to other people so it doesnt bother me.

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    Are you mad he lied or that he talked to another girl. Because you guys aren't vested enough in eachother that you should be upset at him for flirting with other women. Either that or his girl decided she wanted another orgasm after he texted you.

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    • He seems interested in me so it was more about the lie. He can talk to other girls but if he's interested in me, that's weird.

      I didn't know if it's normal for someone to say goodnight but then stay up an hour when he could've talked to me and then didn't actually feel like falling asleep if he's on FB.

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      • RoseIsabella

        Sometimes I say goodnight to people, and then just stay up all night watching videos on YouTube. Sometimes I don't feel like talking to anyone.

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        • Thank you for this.

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          • RoseIsabella

            You're welcome.

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