Guy 34 and girl 22?

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I am a 22 years old girl and I am starting to feel something for a 34 almost 35 years old guy.
We do some volunteer kinda thing together and I always catch him staring at me and smiling and all those signals that tell you that something may be going on.
It is truly a beginning stage of the whole thing so it is the right time to wonder if it's okay or if it is too much of an age gap.
I truly don't know him that well to start something or to express myself a lot, but I don't want to start fantasizing and sending positive signals if the age gap is not acceptable.

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Based on 33 votes (25 yes)

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MasterChives

5 years ago

Ah come on! Go get yourself some of that crusty ball action.

There are however some check boxes that need to be filled.

Does this old ass mofo have a car? He is 34. He needs a car.

If yes. Is it a BMW, Mercedes or Audi? If no fuck em' (not litrally)

Does he have good money? You said he is volunteering so he better have some paper!

Does he have kids? Can't be playing that card. Baggage and shit.

Does he WANT kids. If he does tell him to shove his car keys up his ass.

He better be cut. No beer belly.

If he passes this criteria then and only then do you give up the booty.

I mean your young still. Matter of fact why don't you through some of that ass this-a-way?

No?

Ah well worth a try, STILL follow these steps and you will find super happiness.

I am a doctor. A lawyer. AND.. A baker. so i think i know what im talking about a bit better that the average joe..

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Haha, your comment made me laugh!
  He is young looking, very toned figure and he does have a car, not sure of the type though!
  I don't think he has kids nor he wants them any time soon; he lives a very young type of life, I mean he does all the normal things I do such as going out, volunteering, having fun and such.
  He does work as well, he is the owner of a well known small cafè, which makes town famous panini at night, so like a place where young people like to hang out.
  He doesn't seem so much 35 years old, I was surprised where I found out after a LOT of stalking haha.
  He looks more like 26/28 max!
  I will give it a chance and see where it goes I suppose! 😊
  
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  - MasterChives
    
    5 years ago
    
    Yes go you! Chives supports this all the way!
    
    Just remember to marry this guy then take half of everything!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      5 years ago
      
      Haha hey I am not THAT into him yet!
      
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Bailey_Rose

5 years ago

The only way to really find out is take a leap of faith! Ask him out. Age is just a number. You aren't the first person on the planet to be involved with an older person and you won't be the last.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  Yeah I will make him understand that I am into him!
  And I know I am not the first one to date someone older but there's a lot of age difference between us!
  
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TomatoJuice

5 years ago

Id married a guy 15 years older than me, my parents are 14 years apart and it worked out just fine, I think your over thinking it because of what social standards are, well I say fuck social standard and I do what I want when I want.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I agree with you! Why overthinking something that could be awesome for me?
  Thanks for your advice, I'll just roll with it and see how it goes!
  
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TerriAngel

5 years ago

Break him off a piece.
You don't get an award on your death bed for least amount of guys you've tried.
All this age stuff.
We're not talking marriage.
Just a good time.

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Zeikfried

5 years ago

The most beautiful part of a relationship is those sweet beginnings. You're always looking forward to seeing him, fantasizing about how your life is going to be, talking about the stupidest things in life and enjoying them like they make sense. Something is going on in your life and it would be SUCH a shame to judge him by his age. If it were up to me, I would erase age from the factors that count in a relationship. But then again, there's society and stuff so I totally understand. Good luck and tyt to see if he's a good match for you.

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run269

5 years ago

Yes it's normal you two just have and fun hopefully if everything is good you too could get serious

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I don't know him well enough yet but I hope we get to be something more than just glances and small talks and smiles 😊
  
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bigbudchonga

5 years ago

Ye the age gap is reasonable, a little on the too far apart, but by no means is it unrealistic. I would say the ideal age gap is about 8 years between men and women. I know a lot of us men don't like to admit this, but we mature a lot slower than women, so this seems perfectly resonable

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  5 years ago
  
  I've always dated guys older than me by 1/3 and lastly 6 years but 13 would be really my max.
  This is way I am a little indecisive.
  
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  - bigbudchonga
    
    5 years ago
    
    Ye it is a bit far. I don't think it's beyond the realm of a workable relationship though.
    
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IrishPotato

5 years ago

Normal.

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