Grabbing someone's hand while dancing, is this seen as flirting?

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I was at a lez club last weekend and I was with a bunch of people I am getting to know, one lady I like a lot. I took the opportunity since I was drunk to grab her hand and attempt to swirl her around playfully. She had heels on so she had to swirl me around instead ahah. Anyway, is that considered flirting of me? I mean I am Not the type to flirt with everyone like some are just naturally flirty. I met her 3x now so she doens to know what my personality is like. I also touch and pat her but I do that with other mates to make it seem not obvious that I have a crush on her. So would she think I was playing or being flirty?

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Based on 11 votes (10 yes)
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  • shuggy-chan
    4 years ago

    I wonder, wonder who, who-oo-ooh, who
    (Who wrote the book of love)

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    • SKDM007
      4 years ago

      ay that was a great song, remembering hearing it mafia 2

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      • shuggy-chan
        4 years ago

        Idk why, reading the OP’s story made my brain remember that song I probably haven’t heard in years, maybe even a decade.

        So it was annoying they were so crabby about it.

        But maybe they actually listened to it and it spoke sometime to them.. but probably not 🤷🏻‍♂️

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Quit wasting my time a hole

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          • shuggy-chan
            4 years ago

            Pfft, like I said. Maybe my answer (advice) was in the lyrics.

            So maybe look them up or listen to the song

            Or not and insult me, not like anyone else bothered commenting on this post 🤷🏻‍♂️

            Besides the guy telling you to sexually assault someone

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Only reply if you actually have advice

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      • shuggy-chan
        4 years ago

        Maybe my answer was in the music

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdGuy
    4 years ago

    Yeah I personally like a girl thats bold and will make a move. Women I've been with like when the guy (or in your case girl) makes a move.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Sounds like you don’t want her to know you like her if you’re blending in the pats with others. I guess the hand thing could be taken either way but if you like her make it obvious see her reaction.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      She is taken

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      • [Old Memory]
        4 years ago

        Oh

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          :(

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  • dimwitted
    4 years ago

    Next time jam your tongue down her throat (or anywhere else)

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Dont be a prick

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