Actually, this is quite normal. Older men have much more to offer. And, the sex is much better--they have the experience, patience, and motivation to get you excited and really please you. So, I don't think there is anything wrong with you, in this respect. The only reason you lie to others about their age is because many people don't quite accept this kind of age gap, even though it's perfectly normal.
As for the relationships ending when things get emotional, here is a suggestion: Tell your next partner that you want to keep things casual, you don't want him to develop feelings for you, and that should he ever tell you, 'I love you,' you will leave him. Don't explain why, just say that's the way you are. Women are paradoxical.
I agree - the hurting is not fair whatever age and you should be honest about your expectations since you know in advance what you are doing. The rest - well - you are of the age of consent & seem to know what you are doing & why.
I think you turn off emotionally because you are too young for a serious/sustained relationship. And that will be there for older guys who are ready at their age. Teens may tend to experience intense feelings, but not really deep or long lived. Anyway, best to be straight up with these guys.
Sorry you lost your Dad at such a tender age - doubt it has much to do with it though IMO.
going for older men...??/ losing interest?
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Actually, this is quite normal. Older men have much more to offer. And, the sex is much better--they have the experience, patience, and motivation to get you excited and really please you. So, I don't think there is anything wrong with you, in this respect. The only reason you lie to others about their age is because many people don't quite accept this kind of age gap, even though it's perfectly normal.
As for the relationships ending when things get emotional, here is a suggestion: Tell your next partner that you want to keep things casual, you don't want him to develop feelings for you, and that should he ever tell you, 'I love you,' you will leave him. Don't explain why, just say that's the way you are. Women are paradoxical.
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I agree - the hurting is not fair whatever age and you should be honest about your expectations since you know in advance what you are doing. The rest - well - you are of the age of consent & seem to know what you are doing & why.
I think you turn off emotionally because you are too young for a serious/sustained relationship. And that will be there for older guys who are ready at their age. Teens may tend to experience intense feelings, but not really deep or long lived. Anyway, best to be straight up with these guys.
Sorry you lost your Dad at such a tender age - doubt it has much to do with it though IMO.