Girls, what do you think about a guy who has never been in a relationship?
This is preferably a question for the ladies, but any input will be appreciated. I'm a 28 year old male and I've never had a girlfriend or asked a girl out. I could give many reasons why. I've dealt with a lot of social anxiety in my lifetime, but ultimately it's just me making excuses for myself. However, I'm trying to face my demons and I really feel like this year could be a turning point in my life. So, I need some advice on this one because I'm sick of missing on opportunities.
I've talked to this girl a few times. She's very attractive and I like her personality. I recently had a conversation. I was trying hard to keep the conversation going and felt like things were going pretty well. I could tell she was interested based on what she was saying. She asked me how long ago my previous relationship was, how long it lasted, and why it ended? I wasn't expecting it, and I obviously didn't know how to respond. I told her I've never really been in a serious relationship. She seemed surprised and responded saying "you're too good." I didn't know what to say to that. I thought she might've been joking so I laughed, but apparently it rubbed her wrong because she quickly ended the conversation and walked away, and I was just sitting there like, what just happened? I was simply being honest. It made me feel like shit, and thinking I'm gonna be lonely forever because of this. Should I have lied? Should I have said I didn't want to talk about it? How should I have responded? Was she out of line? I need some answers. Thank you.
It doesn't really matter | 19 | |
It's a turn off | 3 | |
It's a turn on | 5 | |
He's probably an arrogant D-bag | 1 | |
What a loser! | 1 | |
He's stuck up | 1 | |
Other (please comment) | 1 |