What? I find this comment incredibly relative. As "long hair" and facial hair are not entirely going to make any guy more attractive to me. My personal taste is short hair, spiked and no facial hair. But even then, the most attractive guys I have dated, could have had long hair and some facial hair OR short hair and fully shaved, they would still look great, because physically, they were just incredibly attractive and there wasn't any specific look they needed to abide by. As someone who did modeling for a long time, I dated plenty of my peers from a shoot, so yes they were attractive to me and my "type", but it doesn't mean an unattractive guy somehow would be just as good looking, lacking the built bodies, great physical features etc that they did. Of course beauty is relative, but there are groups of people who the majority find attractive. No matter what. Good genetic build, is simply good genetics and the efforts people with them impose is also effective.
Not to say my 3 longest relationships were with the attractive men. My longest relationships were all with people who were my type personality wise, smart, could make me laugh and we had a multitude of things in common. All of the guys I chose to date were deemed "not good enough" for me, which enraged me, because people, my friends etc based this fact they conjured up, on looks alone. Even though I loved the relationships, the person, their personalities and intelligence more and really didn't, and still do not, hold looks to some higher standard of someone's worth. I always give everyone a chance if there are base things we have in common and personality traits I adore. Had the "less attractive" men NOT had been as funny, confident, intelligent, fun to be around, had things in common with me, or simply were awkward, there's no way I would have ever dated them. It all comes down to how you present yourself and how enjoyable of a time one can have with you. The best looking guys were NOT "assholes, douchebags", they were just boring, or not my type, intellectually/personality wise. That holds a ton on weight for me. Ultimately, I want to be happy with who I am with.
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What? I find this comment incredibly relative. As "long hair" and facial hair are not entirely going to make any guy more attractive to me. My personal taste is short hair, spiked and no facial hair. But even then, the most attractive guys I have dated, could have had long hair and some facial hair OR short hair and fully shaved, they would still look great, because physically, they were just incredibly attractive and there wasn't any specific look they needed to abide by. As someone who did modeling for a long time, I dated plenty of my peers from a shoot, so yes they were attractive to me and my "type", but it doesn't mean an unattractive guy somehow would be just as good looking, lacking the built bodies, great physical features etc that they did. Of course beauty is relative, but there are groups of people who the majority find attractive. No matter what. Good genetic build, is simply good genetics and the efforts people with them impose is also effective.
Not to say my 3 longest relationships were with the attractive men. My longest relationships were all with people who were my type personality wise, smart, could make me laugh and we had a multitude of things in common. All of the guys I chose to date were deemed "not good enough" for me, which enraged me, because people, my friends etc based this fact they conjured up, on looks alone. Even though I loved the relationships, the person, their personalities and intelligence more and really didn't, and still do not, hold looks to some higher standard of someone's worth. I always give everyone a chance if there are base things we have in common and personality traits I adore. Had the "less attractive" men NOT had been as funny, confident, intelligent, fun to be around, had things in common with me, or simply were awkward, there's no way I would have ever dated them. It all comes down to how you present yourself and how enjoyable of a time one can have with you. The best looking guys were NOT "assholes, douchebags", they were just boring, or not my type, intellectually/personality wise. That holds a ton on weight for me. Ultimately, I want to be happy with who I am with.