Is this a reaction to my comment? You ought to read my other two comments above, for explanation.
I'll cheer, as well, for people who prefer to appreciate their lovers' personality, more than appearance. But that does not mean it's fair to pressure women to never desire male (visual) beauty. Read my reply to cuppycake1228.
I said people enjoy both appearance, *and* personality. But rules don't dictate which one a person must enjoy more- (people cannot help what they're attracted to. Romance/sexuality is for enjoyment, not rules).
And I gave OP advice on appearance, in case he (or any other reader) wanted it. With too many gals making themselves pretty for guys, there ought to be guys who do the same. Even if you think it's superficial, it's still sexist. But my advice was not to pressure OP specifically. I don't socially outcast people for not being pretty. But, just because a girl can't help be unattracted to certain guys, does not mean she's "summing him up on physical appearance." Just like a gay man who's not attracted to a woman, does not mean he's rude for making assumptions about her gender.
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Is this a reaction to my comment? You ought to read my other two comments above, for explanation.
I'll cheer, as well, for people who prefer to appreciate their lovers' personality, more than appearance. But that does not mean it's fair to pressure women to never desire male (visual) beauty. Read my reply to cuppycake1228.
I said people enjoy both appearance, *and* personality. But rules don't dictate which one a person must enjoy more- (people cannot help what they're attracted to. Romance/sexuality is for enjoyment, not rules).
And I gave OP advice on appearance, in case he (or any other reader) wanted it. With too many gals making themselves pretty for guys, there ought to be guys who do the same. Even if you think it's superficial, it's still sexist. But my advice was not to pressure OP specifically. I don't socially outcast people for not being pretty. But, just because a girl can't help be unattracted to certain guys, does not mean she's "summing him up on physical appearance." Just like a gay man who's not attracted to a woman, does not mean he's rude for making assumptions about her gender.
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If it was for you specifically, I would have replied to you directly. I understand the basics of a comment section.
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Ok, I'll stop bitching at you. Pretend my comment was somewhere else, rather than in your thread.
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I'm not much for pretending.