Op, I know what makes guys attractive, if you'd like me to share:
Almost all (*ALL*) guys need to grow their hair out a few inches, in order to be attractive. People desire eachother visually- based on our instincts, which tell how healthy a person looks. We see signs of a health in the skin, teeth, hair, etc. 99% of guys eliminate this by cutting their hair too short. Instead, grow your hair down to your ears at least. Or longer.
Keep long hair neat, not messy. Don't grow too much facial hair (or any. It looks messy & hides the face. Thin goatee at most). Long hair looks good with every clothing fashion, and every personality. A few other things help in being attractive, but long hair is the biggest factor.
Being rejected is no big deal, either. If I'm not attracted to a guy who approaches me--- I would chat with him politely, or view him as a friend. If one person is not interested in you, then somebody else might be (trial and error). Except some people do make it awkward/ respond rudely. I've hit on guys, and I've been rejected. I usually hit on strangers at bars- though not everyone likes doing that. In such case, if they're rude, or I embarrass myself, I may not have to see them again.
What? I find this comment incredibly relative. As "long hair" and facial hair are not entirely going to make any guy more attractive to me. My personal taste is short hair, spiked and no facial hair. But even then, the most attractive guys I have dated, could have had long hair and some facial hair OR short hair and fully shaved, they would still look great, because physically, they were just incredibly attractive and there wasn't any specific look they needed to abide by. As someone who did modeling for a long time, I dated plenty of my peers from a shoot, so yes they were attractive to me and my "type", but it doesn't mean an unattractive guy somehow would be just as good looking, lacking the built bodies, great physical features etc that they did. Of course beauty is relative, but there are groups of people who the majority find attractive. No matter what. Good genetic build, is simply good genetics and the efforts people with them impose is also effective.
Not to say my 3 longest relationships were with the attractive men. My longest relationships were all with people who were my type personality wise, smart, could make me laugh and we had a multitude of things in common. All of the guys I chose to date were deemed "not good enough" for me, which enraged me, because people, my friends etc based this fact they conjured up, on looks alone. Even though I loved the relationships, the person, their personalities and intelligence more and really didn't, and still do not, hold looks to some higher standard of someone's worth. I always give everyone a chance if there are base things we have in common and personality traits I adore. Had the "less attractive" men NOT had been as funny, confident, intelligent, fun to be around, had things in common with me, or simply were awkward, there's no way I would have ever dated them. It all comes down to how you present yourself and how enjoyable of a time one can have with you. The best looking guys were NOT "assholes, douchebags", they were just boring, or not my type, intellectually/personality wise. That holds a ton on weight for me. Ultimately, I want to be happy with who I am with.
I appreciate your advice, but there's only so far a long, flowing mane can take you. My hair is pretty long by today's standards anyway. I have never really considered approaching complete strangers for the purpose of flirting. As you said, though, it does limit the potential damage inflicted by rejection.
Ok. Well, good luck either way. (yeah I guess long hair is not the only good quality. It's just what most guys lack, so I made assumptions, sorry) Hope it goes well.
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Op, I know what makes guys attractive, if you'd like me to share:
Almost all (*ALL*) guys need to grow their hair out a few inches, in order to be attractive. People desire eachother visually- based on our instincts, which tell how healthy a person looks. We see signs of a health in the skin, teeth, hair, etc. 99% of guys eliminate this by cutting their hair too short. Instead, grow your hair down to your ears at least. Or longer.
Keep long hair neat, not messy. Don't grow too much facial hair (or any. It looks messy & hides the face. Thin goatee at most). Long hair looks good with every clothing fashion, and every personality. A few other things help in being attractive, but long hair is the biggest factor.
Being rejected is no big deal, either. If I'm not attracted to a guy who approaches me--- I would chat with him politely, or view him as a friend. If one person is not interested in you, then somebody else might be (trial and error). Except some people do make it awkward/ respond rudely. I've hit on guys, and I've been rejected. I usually hit on strangers at bars- though not everyone likes doing that. In such case, if they're rude, or I embarrass myself, I may not have to see them again.
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What? I find this comment incredibly relative. As "long hair" and facial hair are not entirely going to make any guy more attractive to me. My personal taste is short hair, spiked and no facial hair. But even then, the most attractive guys I have dated, could have had long hair and some facial hair OR short hair and fully shaved, they would still look great, because physically, they were just incredibly attractive and there wasn't any specific look they needed to abide by. As someone who did modeling for a long time, I dated plenty of my peers from a shoot, so yes they were attractive to me and my "type", but it doesn't mean an unattractive guy somehow would be just as good looking, lacking the built bodies, great physical features etc that they did. Of course beauty is relative, but there are groups of people who the majority find attractive. No matter what. Good genetic build, is simply good genetics and the efforts people with them impose is also effective.
Not to say my 3 longest relationships were with the attractive men. My longest relationships were all with people who were my type personality wise, smart, could make me laugh and we had a multitude of things in common. All of the guys I chose to date were deemed "not good enough" for me, which enraged me, because people, my friends etc based this fact they conjured up, on looks alone. Even though I loved the relationships, the person, their personalities and intelligence more and really didn't, and still do not, hold looks to some higher standard of someone's worth. I always give everyone a chance if there are base things we have in common and personality traits I adore. Had the "less attractive" men NOT had been as funny, confident, intelligent, fun to be around, had things in common with me, or simply were awkward, there's no way I would have ever dated them. It all comes down to how you present yourself and how enjoyable of a time one can have with you. The best looking guys were NOT "assholes, douchebags", they were just boring, or not my type, intellectually/personality wise. That holds a ton on weight for me. Ultimately, I want to be happy with who I am with.
I appreciate your advice, but there's only so far a long, flowing mane can take you. My hair is pretty long by today's standards anyway. I have never really considered approaching complete strangers for the purpose of flirting. As you said, though, it does limit the potential damage inflicted by rejection.
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Ok. Well, good luck either way. (yeah I guess long hair is not the only good quality. It's just what most guys lack, so I made assumptions, sorry) Hope it goes well.