I disagree. She can prefer guys based on their looks, if she wants to. Nobody tells guys they'd better not desire pretty girls. Since guys do like pretty girls, why can't girls like guys the same? According to what (s)aint said, her theoretical response is not rude or mean. She simply wants them to know she's not interested.
Nobody should pressure a gal (nor guy) to be attracted to someone (who she's not attracted to). That's like pressuring a gay man to date women. People cannot help what turns them on and what does not. There isn't really a "right" or "wrong" for what attracts a person. Especially for women, who often have such pressure on their sexuality. You say hot guys tend to be assholes, but why is that a girl's fault? Just for being attracted to a good-looking guy? I hear many guys want girls who are *both* attractive, and nice. Why can't girls want guys the same?
Thanks! You nailed it. I would of course not date a hot guy if he was an ass and I obviously do have some different types. I would actually say that I have MORE requirements for their personality and sexual preferences than their looks. If a guy isn't into the same thing that I am, that is a dealbreaker.
I also think that it's bullshit to say that all good looking guys are ass-holes ...
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I disagree. She can prefer guys based on their looks, if she wants to. Nobody tells guys they'd better not desire pretty girls. Since guys do like pretty girls, why can't girls like guys the same? According to what (s)aint said, her theoretical response is not rude or mean. She simply wants them to know she's not interested.
Nobody should pressure a gal (nor guy) to be attracted to someone (who she's not attracted to). That's like pressuring a gay man to date women. People cannot help what turns them on and what does not. There isn't really a "right" or "wrong" for what attracts a person. Especially for women, who often have such pressure on their sexuality. You say hot guys tend to be assholes, but why is that a girl's fault? Just for being attracted to a good-looking guy? I hear many guys want girls who are *both* attractive, and nice. Why can't girls want guys the same?
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Thanks! You nailed it. I would of course not date a hot guy if he was an ass and I obviously do have some different types. I would actually say that I have MORE requirements for their personality and sexual preferences than their looks. If a guy isn't into the same thing that I am, that is a dealbreaker.
I also think that it's bullshit to say that all good looking guys are ass-holes ...