Girls: do you take part in flings or relationships?

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Just curious about how girls think about themselves and their sexuality. I've known girls on both sides of the spectrum. As a male here I personally try to stick to relationships, but of course there are plenty out there who love having a fling.
If you do have lots of flings, how often?

I always have flings. Dont want a relationship 82
I rarely have flings 80
I NEVER fling. I only want intimacy in a relationship 102
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  • theresaside
    11 years ago

    Personally, I'd rather have relationships. If he isn't ready for one, I may consider having a fling with him depending upon how much I like the guy.

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    • Allistalla
      11 years ago

      Does it count as a fling if they all leave after 3 months becuase they get bored find another women than get dumped and try to come back to the person they dumped ?

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  • LadySimplicia
    11 years ago

    Neither.

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  • BlueAlice
    11 years ago

    I've only ever been in relationships (a couple of ONSs notwithstanding), but would rather have flings. I need to have as much experience with as many people as possible before I get too old to get away with it

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    well, I try to have relatinships but for some reason
    nomatter what we always brake up and one of us is heartbroken if I dont dump them first they decide to leave me so I guess all my relationships are flings but I guess thats what a relationship is spoesta be thier is no real relationships they all end so its a worthelss piontless venture that only cuases pain and makes more enemies Fuck them alll and fuck MARRIAGE

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  • *~ThePurplePixie~*
    11 years ago

    I'm 24, and I've only ever had one relationship (and no flings)
    I met him at 16 - he was never a fling! And now I'm married to him, with two kids, living in his homecountry Ireland! It's awesome, I never regret committing to his love - flings just aren't my thing.

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    • Mmmpfh
      11 years ago

      Ireland? Woah freaky. I'm from there too.

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      • *~ThePurplePixie~*
        11 years ago

        Cool. Where abouts? We live in Dublin...but I'm actually FROM England.

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        • Mmmpfh
          11 years ago

          There are loads of English living in Ireland alright. I'm in college in Cork myself

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          • *~ThePurplePixie~*
            11 years ago

            Yeah, lots of people don't like English people - I don't really blame them to be honest! We are a bunch of bloody emotionless sods after all!
            I love Irish people though - they actually are so genuine!
            Wow, I've never been to Cork.

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            • Mmmpfh
              11 years ago

              Depends who you are talking to. I know plenty of horrible Irish people... Travelers or whatever you want to call the mare a prime example

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  • hootiemomma
    11 years ago

    I would RATHER have a relationship, but I'm not going to settle for someone I am not really interested in just to have a relationship. When enough time passes (and I mean a long time because I have a power tool in my bedroom), and I haven't been with a man...yes I have flings. One night stands with strangers. Craigslist all the way, baby! I bought a big giant can of condoms just to be safe! Thankfully, I have a boyfriend now and we are in a REAL relationship and have been since January 2012. Hopefully, I won't be on Craigslist for a LOOOOOOONG time! LOL

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  • DottiMae
    11 years ago

    I've always been in strong relationships. It's way better and I feel a connection with partners during sex. It means more and it's personal

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  • Blackwidow
    11 years ago

    I like both.

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  • bleach_baby
    11 years ago

    I prefer to be seeing someone, or a few people. Fuck relationships, I'm 22, can't be dealing with sexual jealousy or possessiveness. "Seeing" a likeminded individual (or two :D) gives you all the benefits of a relationship, without the overt attachment which results in someone getting hurt, and it means your sexual needs are fufilled without having to have one night stands (never satisfactory for a female)

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Relationships.

    I had a couple of flings when I was still a teen, but I would have preferred that they were relationships at the time.

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