I've usually preferred guys about the same age as me. I was never looking for a daddy, more a soul mate or best friend, so somewhat at the same phase of life was more appropriate for me. Now that I'm older, I'm 39, and there are more men younger than me so more of them fit the bill for me (than, say, when I was 20!) Guys older than me tend to seem old to me, guys younger than me tend to seem too young. But my 3 primary interests these days are a guy 8 years older than me, a guy 10 days younger than me, and a guy 8 years younger than me.
girls, do u go older or younger, and why?
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I've usually preferred guys about the same age as me. I was never looking for a daddy, more a soul mate or best friend, so somewhat at the same phase of life was more appropriate for me. Now that I'm older, I'm 39, and there are more men younger than me so more of them fit the bill for me (than, say, when I was 20!) Guys older than me tend to seem old to me, guys younger than me tend to seem too young. But my 3 primary interests these days are a guy 8 years older than me, a guy 10 days younger than me, and a guy 8 years younger than me.