Girls are repelled by me

Hey I'm 20.
I've had a lot of female friends. But MOST of the hot ones always stop talking to me for some reason or the other. This one chick was joking around with me and so did i. Then she stopped talking to me apparently because i was rude. There are soo many chicks who do that to me. I guess they just are really really really unattracted by me. I feel jealous that some of my friends always socialize with the hottest of chicks while im home on fb or drinkin with some guys who are just like me. I have a decent body, average looks, good speech, funny at times. I just don't get it. What do I do to be what i dream to be?

I mean we get one life so why live it in a way you don't want to?

Just help me out guys.
This is a very complex problem and only someone who REALLY gets can help me.

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Comments ( 8 )
  • heeraklee

    lower ur standards

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  • CountessCoolout

    Apparently looks aren't everything? There's a news flash...

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  • samalander

    Oh, and be yourself, if it's meant to be it will happen. If its not ok then its not the end.

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  • samalander

    Did you stop wearing deodorant? JK. You can't just be handsome, you've got to be a charmer! Be nice to them, and if you decide to be funny make sure it's not insulting. People change, it's not just the outside that's counts!;)

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  • naider

    Have sex with a couple sluts. Get addicted to them and forget about this issue.

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  • bleach_baby

    Ok, I'm gunna be blunt. The problem is, you sound like you think you're entitled to hang out with really good looking girls, or to go out with really good looking girls. Really good looking girls can pick anyone they want. Being average looking and "funny sometimes" probably means you are aiming out of your league. Some guys just cant pull girls like that, and never will be able to. Try aiming more realistically and youll probably be more successful.

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  • kellstar

    Maybe when u say your being funny, the chick doesn't think so. U say that they talk and joke around and then they just don't anymore so maybe it has to do with what u r saying. Most girls don't like funny boys who think that putting ppl down to get a laugh is funny or perverted boys who joke too much about sex in a bad degrading way. Pay attention to what u say when the girls suddenly stop talking to u and if u figure it out, stop doing it and they improve

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  • I liked one of my closest friends, when she realized this, we stopped going out and being so close friends, now we barely talk...

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