Most all you need, is to be visually attractive! Read my profile, on how to be an attractive guy! Because I'm trying not to write too much in one comment.
Your hobbies don't matter for dating, in my opinion. People can want to be with each other, even if their hobbies differ. It's good enough that you have hobbies, regardless what they are. I'll cheer for you enjoying what you do.. Though, even if you decide to take up hobbies that you think will make you more dateable-- that's also up to you. You probably don't need to, but I won't judge you for it, either if you do that.
A gal might also feel relieved, to know that you're not judging her, for her hobbies, either. I think some types of guys, who think their own hobby is supposedly super cool, will make a girl feel belittled because she doesn't have the same hobby as him. And not appreciate whatever her hobbies are.
I don't think so. The only reason I talk about the controversially superficial topic, of how to look good, is specifically because- I think guys should try to be as pleasing to girls. Instead of only expecting girls to visually please guys. If I didn't see it representing sexism in our world, then I wouldn't bring it up. I otherwise wouldn't normally talk about something as superficial as looks, without a good reason.
This. I find it offensive on behalf of men...and I find the implication that women are sexist or whatever if they happen to like a different look equally offensive.
There's no problem with her liking a particular look...many people do have preferences, but to imply that it is "the" way for men to look attractive is offensive and, as C.C stated, immature.
My bf has short hair...often very short...and he couldn't be more attractive if he tried. And his looks are just a bonus...I fell for who he is. Fuck knows why he wastes his time on me hah.
You have been really pushy, in your comments with me, elsewhere. Regardless what the topic of debate is, you seem to be following after me, on this site. I have also seen you harass other users.
I want to discuss topics with other users. But I'm going to ask that you do not comment on my threads anymore. I do not like pushy people.
Not quite- what I actually mean is, I'm pretty sure BOTH genders are attracted to hair.
Women who ARE attracted to men with hair, are screwed over by our sexist social environment- which implies that mostly, only men enjoy their sexuality, and women have to be sidelined. So, I feel best when I suggest to guys, that they grow their hair out. Also, stereotypically there are guys who want to know how to attract girls- who may like my advice. And men do not have to specify that they wish women would grow their hair out, like I do for men, because women already do try to look good for men. There's no sexist imbalance against men. Other women like men with hair as well. I'm not being immature for saying so.
For anyone who likes short-haired men, I don't understand why they'd feel threatened by my saying so. 99% of the male population already have crew cuts or buzz cuts! Short-hair lovers already have what they want.
Even though some women like short haired men, it could be that half of women (and men) like short-haired. The other half like long-haired. Just because not every woman thinks long-haired looks good, doesn't change the fact that the estimated half of us who do like long haired- are being screwed over. While men feel entitled to a world that flashes pretty women. That's why it's not fair to us, and that's why I say so.
You say on your profile that men who have short hair are unattractive - and suggest that short hair on males is because 'society' doesn't want women to be visually pleased.
You say that all men should grow their hair long, and that this is the MOST important factor in being visually appealing to women.
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Most all you need, is to be visually attractive! Read my profile, on how to be an attractive guy! Because I'm trying not to write too much in one comment.
Your hobbies don't matter for dating, in my opinion. People can want to be with each other, even if their hobbies differ. It's good enough that you have hobbies, regardless what they are. I'll cheer for you enjoying what you do.. Though, even if you decide to take up hobbies that you think will make you more dateable-- that's also up to you. You probably don't need to, but I won't judge you for it, either if you do that.
A gal might also feel relieved, to know that you're not judging her, for her hobbies, either. I think some types of guys, who think their own hobby is supposedly super cool, will make a girl feel belittled because she doesn't have the same hobby as him. And not appreciate whatever her hobbies are.
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You are so immature.
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I don't think so. The only reason I talk about the controversially superficial topic, of how to look good, is specifically because- I think guys should try to be as pleasing to girls. Instead of only expecting girls to visually please guys. If I didn't see it representing sexism in our world, then I wouldn't bring it up. I otherwise wouldn't normally talk about something as superficial as looks, without a good reason.
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You seem to assume what you think looks good on a guy is what every woman thinks looks good.
It isn't.
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This. I find it offensive on behalf of men...and I find the implication that women are sexist or whatever if they happen to like a different look equally offensive.
There's no problem with her liking a particular look...many people do have preferences, but to imply that it is "the" way for men to look attractive is offensive and, as C.C stated, immature.
My bf has short hair...often very short...and he couldn't be more attractive if he tried. And his looks are just a bonus...I fell for who he is. Fuck knows why he wastes his time on me hah.
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I want to discuss this. But-
You have been really pushy, in your comments with me, elsewhere. Regardless what the topic of debate is, you seem to be following after me, on this site. I have also seen you harass other users.
I want to discuss topics with other users. But I'm going to ask that you do not comment on my threads anymore. I do not like pushy people.
Also, I can tell that you have multiple accounts.
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Commenting on two of your comments is following you? Ok then...
I made an account recently due to this being deleted, yes, what does that have to do with anything? It's not like I was secretive about it.
Not quite- what I actually mean is, I'm pretty sure BOTH genders are attracted to hair.
Women who ARE attracted to men with hair, are screwed over by our sexist social environment- which implies that mostly, only men enjoy their sexuality, and women have to be sidelined. So, I feel best when I suggest to guys, that they grow their hair out. Also, stereotypically there are guys who want to know how to attract girls- who may like my advice. And men do not have to specify that they wish women would grow their hair out, like I do for men, because women already do try to look good for men. There's no sexist imbalance against men. Other women like men with hair as well. I'm not being immature for saying so.
For anyone who likes short-haired men, I don't understand why they'd feel threatened by my saying so. 99% of the male population already have crew cuts or buzz cuts! Short-hair lovers already have what they want.
Even though some women like short haired men, it could be that half of women (and men) like short-haired. The other half like long-haired. Just because not every woman thinks long-haired looks good, doesn't change the fact that the estimated half of us who do like long haired- are being screwed over. While men feel entitled to a world that flashes pretty women. That's why it's not fair to us, and that's why I say so.
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You say on your profile that men who have short hair are unattractive - and suggest that short hair on males is because 'society' doesn't want women to be visually pleased.
You say that all men should grow their hair long, and that this is the MOST important factor in being visually appealing to women.
I do. Not all guys are like that. Not all girls are like you.