Maybe it's time for a gentle ultimatum: if she genuinely doesn't know why she doesn't want sex (any more or has she ever??) she needs to get herself some therapy and maybe if you tell her you're considering getting sex elsewhere this might give her a bit of a nudge?
You know her and IIN people don't: if she's very sensitive emotionally then I wouldn't be telling her that, just gently encourage her to get some help outside the relationship because it's important to you.
It's normal for you to want to get sex elsewhere but not a good idea if you value the relationship. She certainly won't feel like having sex with you if she finds out you've been cheating.
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Maybe it's time for a gentle ultimatum: if she genuinely doesn't know why she doesn't want sex (any more or has she ever??) she needs to get herself some therapy and maybe if you tell her you're considering getting sex elsewhere this might give her a bit of a nudge?
You know her and IIN people don't: if she's very sensitive emotionally then I wouldn't be telling her that, just gently encourage her to get some help outside the relationship because it's important to you.
It's normal for you to want to get sex elsewhere but not a good idea if you value the relationship. She certainly won't feel like having sex with you if she finds out you've been cheating.