Girlfriend is never horny

If u leave her at this particular time u would b such a pimp..

The bit about, she starts the day with the your getting nothing attitude? No offence man, she sounds like a bitch!! The girl and I use to have sex all the time, she would even enisiate it sometimes, now the only time she would enisiate it if I am lucky if she is blind drunk. And we probably do it once a fortnight or once a month... This has bin going on for 2 years, I have Hurd every excuse under the sun... Getting a handjob is like pulling teeth... And if I knock her back cos I don't wanto she is like, I am going to remember this! It's a joke.. It's not like I don't make an effort.. I drive her to work every day... Open the car door for her every time, make her dinner on my nights off.. Give her a massage if she wants one.. Send her flowers at work... It's like she has no consideration for my needs,. At all! All I hafto do is go down on her to get her going, and she doesn't even let me do that... Love her to death but she makes me question wye I am even with her sometimes.. Sorry lady's but if you think meeting your mans basic sexual needs isn't your responsabillity your kidding your selves.. I remember sometimes when she put in on me and I didn't feel like it I would just do it so she wouldn't feel rejected.. Just think about this lady's.. Every time you knock your man back. He is just going to go out, purv on girls thinking to him self how much he would love to screw them.. Or if he isn't a nice guy, probably f##king other girls behind your back.. I could go on and on and on.. But at the end of the day, wat is wrong with giving your man wat he wants if he gives you wat you want.. Sorry man I totally made this about me haha..

Just make her feel special again. Do the things you did in the period you just met her, make her feel like she's the only one who counts.

Apart from that, define "sex". Does she orgasm when you have sex? Do you use foreplay? Really get her in the mood with a long foreplay and she'll be jumping back on you in no time ;).

Agree with the comments above. Foreplay includes: Eating her out, fingering her, deep make out sessions, 69, watching porn (if she is into that type of thing), talking about fantasies.. Is she on birth control? I have known many instances where there is a lack of libido when a woman is on birth control for 'too long'. And not to freak you out- she may be loosing attraction. But talk to her about it and ask her if she wants to try new things.. Take her out on a date and buy her some lingerie and make her FEEL sexy. But you MUST be patient, if she is willing to try, it may take a while for her to come around simply because she is so used to feeling this way. Good luck, and I'll say it again, be patient! If you make her feel like she doesn't ever satisfy you and complain; it's a turn off.

i agree with the above comment. try being really smooth. try seducing her. try being sensual and teasing her. try foreplay and don't initiate the actual sex. let her do that.

mind you, this is coming from a girl who has stopped having sex with her partner because of lack of foreplay. (BTW, putting a girl's hand on your erection does NOT count as foreplay for any of the rest of the guys in the world who might be of the same mind as my partner)

I might be the wrong person to say anything about this but in MY opinion sex is IMPORTANT.

Are you sure that the two of you aren´t doing things that she isn´t comfortable with? Are you putting any pressure on her preformances?

Either way, she shouldn´t start the day by saying she isn´t feeling like having sex- You do not know that at the beginning of the day ...

I´d be hurt, very hurt if a partner of mine refused to bed me ... At least my ex allowed me to try and make him horny and then he might allow it.

I agree with the comments above as well. My girlfriend doesn't care about my needs either guy and we've been dating for about 4 years now and this started about a year ago with me. I'm considering breaking it off with her because I don't feel that she is very attracted to me anymore at all and her and I used to do some crazy things in the bedroom! and yes foreplay is important and I go down on her and giving her massages and cooking for her and going shopping with her when she wants me too. I still get shit and I've brought it to her attention she thinks nothing is wrong yet I keep warning her I will leave her if she doesn't put out or start making an effort. So she went to the doctor and she stil says nothings wrong and about a week ago I said if I don't start feeling the way I make you feel I'm leaving so shes got til then and maybe when i'm gone she'll meet someone who she is attracted too. or maybe she will come back and actually try because women for some reason think that its ok to slack off and not make their guy feel special .