Girlfriend advices needed

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I think I have a small, big problem, I apparently to be a normal guy and all but... I'm, Idk Wtf I am. So far I'm in my second relationship with a person, for a year and I'm always putting a "validation date" on her, I'm happy(I guess) but skated thinking when we break up. I have done the same thing with my ex, and we dated for 2 years. I think I my have serious problems. They all said the same, I'm a emotionless, heartless, cold, without any expression guy. But they still have a huge love for me. Am I a piece e of trash? Am I not worth of their love?

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    What's the point in trying when we're going to break up later?

    That's your mindset, and that shows in your actions and facial expressions. I bet the closer you get to that "expiration date" you've set, the more apathy you'll show.

    This is called a self-fulfilling prophecy; which means, if you think the relationship is going to end, then it already has.

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    • rivalnegro97
      5 years ago

      You couldn't be more right, I don't think I will ever chance emy mind...

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  • Kam210
    5 years ago

    I used to love with all of my heart until it was broken and I was played by someone I love. Now I have trouble feeling anything. Maybe something tramtic made you cold or maybe you just have mute emotions. Either way it's ok to date but it will be hard to do be long tearm or serious with someone. My advice, as a woman, is to be open with your partner. You deserve to be loved but so does she. If you don't love her after a year maybe you should let her go so she can find love. I hope you find love to some day.

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    • rivalnegro97
      5 years ago

      Due to my experiences in the past, I really find difficult to love, feel or even care about something, Idk if im just cold or retarded

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      • Kam210
        5 years ago

        I'm so sorry. Honestly maybe you haven't found the right person to make you feel? I struggle feeling anything myself but I still have hope maybe one day I'll find someone.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    Even if people do love each other in the beginning, they eventually get tired of each other. The same sex partner for more than a few weeks gets old. It is the safe route but boring.

    People do not love each other anyways. I think you are normal.

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    • rivalnegro97
      5 years ago

      I don't love like I use to... And I don't think I will ever love the way I use to love

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  • xxLucifer
    5 years ago

    First off, quite thinking about whether or not you deserve their love or if you are a piece of trash. Secondly, some people just find it harder to show emotions and that's completely ok. To date somebody for a year you must have been doing something right with that person. You have only been in two relationships so don't expect to have found your "soul mate". If you feel happy about things and the person you are with is happy then their isn't really a problem. Try not to over think things and you should be fine.

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    • rivalnegro97
      5 years ago

      I'm not showing and most of the times I don't feel any. But thank you

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