Gf wants to have a baby i don't so i play alot to have less sperm,iin?

My gf is crazy to have a baby. I don't think its a good idea for us so before i see her i masturbate and masturbate as often as i can but especially before i see her. To have less sperm and less chance of her getting pregnant. Is this a normal thing to do? If i was older or had other kids i'd get the snip and not tell her.

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    You're gonna get her pregnant eventually, and ruin three lives in the process. You can't keep this up, you have to just face your fears and tell her how you feel.

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  • Tell her you dont want one then and dont get a snip without telling her, what are you a psychopath ?! Just break up if you are incompatible selfish freak

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    • I'll get the snip if i want. If a woman said she was gonna get fixed you sure as hell wouldn't be posting such a comment!!
      Turn the sexes round in this story and honestly say you would. You a toxic feminist!!!

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  • Curiouskitten444

    This seems like a lot to go through instead of having a conversation.

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  • Boojum

    You're reducing the chances, but a healthy man will produce more than 70,000 sperm every minute, and it only takes one...

    You and your girlfriend need to have a serious talk about kids, since the two of you are just not on the same page on this topic.

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  • SkullsNRoses

    You need to have a serious conversation with your girlfriend about timelines and when you want children. If you can’t reach an agreement you shouldn’t be together and if you’re not ready to discuss this with her then you’re certainly not ready to be a father.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Just pull out and cum on her belly. If you are nutting inside her you're gonna get her pregnant. I dont think you have thought this through.

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    • Iszzy123

      Just be honest, imagine a gf that don’t want a baby and just what to chill

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        It would be cool when ur young but as you hit your late 20s itd get old

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    • No , i am spraying her nothing inside . Its just another precaution. Just after i posted i banged her and she saw the load was light and complained. Made me feel less of a man.

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        ive been with my wife for like 15 years and I have never used protection but always pulled out and she never has gotten pregnant except for every single time we tried for a baby and we got her pregnant 1st try everytime (5 times). Pulling out has always worked for me and we seem to be very fertile. If you know how to pull out you are good. Precum has almost no sperm in it only semen but if you're a beast like me you can feel when ur about to precum and pull out everytime so nothing ever gets inside.

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        • SkullsNRoses

          The amount of sperm in pre-ejaculate varies between individuals and the pull out method is not a reliable form of birth control. Listen to science, not anecdotes.

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          • 1WeirdGuy

            https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/withdrawal-pull-out-method/what-are-the-disadvantages-of-withdrawal

            According to the scientists the number one reason it fails is because people dont pull out in time and get caught up in the moment and blast in her anyway. Planned parenthood dors say it is effective but keep emergency contraceptives incase you get caught up and blast in her. Idk about other guys but I can always feel when im gonna cum or precum like 10 seconds before. More than enough time. Nothing at all ever comes out.

            https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/withdrawal-pull-out-method

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            • SkullsNRoses

              You most likely have very little or no sperm in your pre-ejaculate which is not the case for everyone. Pull out method is approximately 78% effective compared with 98% for male condoms, don’t spread false information.

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  • have_a_good_day

    Nigga, why you gotta act a fool? You know you can just mix da mornin afta pill with da food in her bowl, right??
    That's what's up

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    • Tha shit be nasty evr day, man. Bitches o varys goin git all fucktup n cancery n'all

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      • have_a_good_day

        Yeah so? It ain't yo cancer. So what's da issue here

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  • RoseIsabella

    Why don't you just talk to her instead?

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  • idolomantis

    If you come inside her it’s still possible to get her pregnant, especially if you guys have sex often. You’re playing with fire basically.

    This is why communication is so important, your needs and desires are just as important as her’s. Put your foot down and say you don’t want a kid right now, end of story. Condoms are a good idea too, or at the very least the pull out method…condoms would be WAY better though. There’s still at least some sperm in your ejaculate whether you like it or not, and that’s a fact. It’s just biology.

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  • Bigshac

    Bro just talk to her about it

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  • Pilum

    Your method is not gonna work for long

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    • The snip will.

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      • Pilum

        Oh. Well yeah, get that and don't worry about it then

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  • olderdude-xx

    Actually, its a good strategy. It virtually always takes more than a small amount of sperm as the female anatomy makes it difficult for the sperm to succeed.

    I don't have the references handy; but do some research on fertility. I don't recall the numbers; but typically for pregnancy you need at least X CC of sperm that has something like 15,000 viable sperm per CC.

    Men who cannot produce to those numbers rarely have children - even with the most fertile woman.

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  • Somenormie

    Normal but she has to be ready for it. But in this case I don't think she is ready for it.

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  • bigbudchonger

    Just go through with it, bro. You'll be really happy once your sprogs are actually with you. Plus women are on a short biological clock. It would be a really nice thing for you to do for her.

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    • Shes still young i recon theres plenty of eggs left.

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