She had her back to me the whole time I was trying to cuddle with her and then gives me shit for not doing enough lol. And I get it, because I do wiggle around a lot when she's trying to hold me. I just can't sleep like that. My limbs fall asleep. And isn't it common courtesy when ur lieing on someone that you distribute ur weight in a way that's comfortable for them? Like when I lay on her I don't put my full weight on her and if I do I do it in a way that doesn't hurt her. She puts me in his fig 4 leg lock every time I lay near her lol I hate it. I think it's all the instances of me being non cuddly that are bothering her. And me not doing it enough last night was the last straw? Idk
She's just taking it the wrong way and her feelings are getting hurt. She's over reacting and you need to put her in her place, but in the nicest way possible. My boyfriend drapes his arms and legs around me like a fetus. He's a clinger, but I love him to death and I'm sure if you just express to her that it's just a part of who you are she may understand better and things will smooth over. You are right that she's wrong, but don't let that get to your head, either .. Lol
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She had her back to me the whole time I was trying to cuddle with her and then gives me shit for not doing enough lol. And I get it, because I do wiggle around a lot when she's trying to hold me. I just can't sleep like that. My limbs fall asleep. And isn't it common courtesy when ur lieing on someone that you distribute ur weight in a way that's comfortable for them? Like when I lay on her I don't put my full weight on her and if I do I do it in a way that doesn't hurt her. She puts me in his fig 4 leg lock every time I lay near her lol I hate it. I think it's all the instances of me being non cuddly that are bothering her. And me not doing it enough last night was the last straw? Idk
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She's just taking it the wrong way and her feelings are getting hurt. She's over reacting and you need to put her in her place, but in the nicest way possible. My boyfriend drapes his arms and legs around me like a fetus. He's a clinger, but I love him to death and I'm sure if you just express to her that it's just a part of who you are she may understand better and things will smooth over. You are right that she's wrong, but don't let that get to your head, either .. Lol