Gf didn’t like that i made her kid cry even though he’s annoying as fuck

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The little fucker kept spinning his noisy rattling toy while I was trying to hear the news on TV so I threw the toy across the room and told him to get lost. Instead of going away he started crying. She demanded what I did to him. All i did was take his toy. I never laid a finger on any kid nor would I. I’m starting to rethink dating chicks with crappy kids cause they keep getting me in trouble.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    There is a reason most men will not date women who have small children.
    Single moms rate just about the same on the dateability scale as men who refuse to work. Bottom of the barrel.

    Probably best if you can find a lady without kids.

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    • megadriver
      5 years ago

      ^This^. I'd never date a single mom.

      Dating a single mom turns you into a substitute daddy, chauffeur, babysitter, therapist and piggy bank for her and her little beasties.

      All of the burdens of family life and none of the perks

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        “All of the burdens of family life and none of the perks.”

        How true my friend! How true!

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      • leggs91200
        5 years ago

        and in some cases the substitute daddy doesn't even get to have sex with the mom cause she is tired, the kid is screaming again, etc.
        But then that is only part of "none of the perks".

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      • bigbudchonga
        5 years ago

        Well said megadriver.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      I'm a woman, and I never wanted to date guys who had kids in a serious way.

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      • bigbudchonga
        5 years ago

        Ye. Unless they're an incredibly good catch it seems like serious baggage.

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          It's probably not nice, but that's kinda how I see it.

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      • Bazinga
        5 years ago

        Seems like Oz may have been right about you, doesnt it?

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          I don'tknow who Oz is, but you smell like an alt.

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          • Bazinga
            5 years ago

            I'm making an assumption here. You commented on a post where the OP finally admitted he couldn't get it up. Then he responded saying you can judge the character of a woman by how she treats those who can not help her. You were pretty rough on that guy. There's a good chance I'm wrong but I'm guessing the OP was theMightyOz. The guy who is always whining about his dick.

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            • RoseIsabella
              5 years ago

              Yeah, I guess that's why the name sounded familiar. I don't treat people who cannot help me poorly. I do certainly think that with regard to whom I choose to have in my life it is my distinct, and exclusive privilege to be discriminating, and feel zero guilt about rejecting anyone for whatever reason I so choose. I really don't care to listen to random dudes complain about how women reject, and or judge them for being poorly endowed. These matters are not matters of life, and death to me. It's relatively normal to feel pity for these types for the first couple of times one hears their tales of woe, but beyond that it's a nuisance, and most likely a troll; no matter. Neither myself, nor anyone should lower their standards for the sake pitiful people who try to manipulate others by attempting to play upon guilt, and pity!

              I donate to reputable charities when I can, and that is certainly good enough. I don't treat people who have nothing to offer poorly. I also don't think I, nor anyone should be forced to listen to constant bullshit about some random dude's private parts, or the whining of incels of any kind. It's not my circus, not my monkey. It's none of my concern, nor need it ever be, for that I feel no guilt, and rightfully so!

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    • SwickDinging
      5 years ago

      Totally fair statement. Works the same for women and single dad's too, although that's much less common to find.

      Why hitch your wagon to all of that baggage if you don't have kids yourself?

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    How old is this child and how old are you? It's normal for kids to make noise and not care about the tv news, not normal for an alleged grownup to behave in the way you did.

    Please stay away from children and I hope the kid's mother has dumped you by now.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Since you are not the baby daddy I honestly think that woman ought to grow some brain cells, and kick yo ass to da curb.

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    • Nikclaire
      5 years ago

      At least he recognizes he is t mature enough for children.

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
        5 years ago

        Its different when theyre your own I promise. Even mens hormones change when their kid is born. I hate kids but love everything about my son. Even when he smacks. I HATE SMACKING.

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    You cant throw the kids toy across the room tho man that sounds like bullying. Its not good for the kids confidence.

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Just find a lady without children. Or find a really crappy single mom who doesn't give a fuck. You're not ready to be a father.

    Good single moms always put their child first, no matter what.

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  • CapriSun
    5 years ago

    Lmao. Yeah just date girls without kids, seriously

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  • HolyBowler666
    5 years ago

    Maybe she doesn't realize how shitty her kid is. Sort of like when people don't realize that their kids are ugly.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Major dick move 👎

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    i love stories like this, reminds me of that curb episode

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  • Vvaas
    5 years ago

    little children are annoying as fuck, don't date women with children, the only time i'd date one is if her children were already grown up and out of house

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  • einexile
    5 years ago

    The behavior suggests you are capable of direct violence against this child, because it WAS a violent act and you are tapdancing around this fact. It also shows a failure to keep your cool and walk away. You should keep this woman at arm's length and find a permanent partner who has no children and wants none.

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  • Meowypowers
    5 years ago

    So basically you reinacted what you saw on fox news? *hint* the rattle is Trump's wall

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    Unless youre rich and have more money than you need, and the mommy is like a 12 out of 10, I wouldn't bother with it

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    For the OP - I am guessing you are probably more frustrated with the entire situation than just the fact that the kid was making noise.

    There are other dating choices. Single moms are easier because no one really wants to get caught in that mess. But it is just not worth it.

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    5 years ago

    I almost ended up in a relationship with a friend of mine who has a kid.

    Don't get me wrong I don't hate kids or anything but what you described is why I didn't.

    I wouldn't go as far as throwing his toys though that's just going to make him an asshole.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      I've never been in a serious relationship with anyone who has a kid in my life. I just don't think I'm the stepmother type, especially if the kids are under eighteen.

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      • TheBlindInquisitor
        5 years ago

        Sad part is I really wanted to be with her but I didn't think I'd have been a good stepfather/father type hell I still don't think Im fully mature for that kind of role

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          How old are you? It's none of my, business, but I'm curious. I'm almost fifty. I was at the point where I kinda wanted to have kids with my first ex-husband, but then he cheated on me with this bitch from his work a year later so you know I had to leave that situation. I was thirty-one when that bullshit went down.

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  • litelander8
    5 years ago

    Regardless of whether it's normal or not, you're setting a bad example. If you teach him to throw things, he's just going to keep being shitty.

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      Like he said, he is not the parent nor wants to be one.

      Although if I had a child and ya thew its toy I would throw you out my house.

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      • RoseIsabella
        5 years ago

        Amen to that!

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      • litelander8
        5 years ago

        Sure, but OP shouldn't complain about the kid being an ass if he's showing him how to be a perfect asshole.

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        • [Old Memory]
          5 years ago

          touché

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