From what I've read of your story, I don't think you're a lesbian, or even necessarily bisexual. Plenty of straight people have fantasies about the same sex, but have no desire to follow through on them. If there's a specific girl that you're fantasising about, and you think that you'd be happy to actually be with her, then maybe start questioning your sexuality.
I'm sorry about what happened with your friends dad, I can't imagine how hard that would be to deal with, but the only way to start getting over it imo is to get in there and prove to yourself that not all men are like that. If you think you need help getting over how you feel, talk to a therpist, it really helps a lot of people.
Also, don't worry about not being big into babies, plenty of people who weren't that entuasiastic about it in their youth make wonderful mums :)
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From what I've read of your story, I don't think you're a lesbian, or even necessarily bisexual. Plenty of straight people have fantasies about the same sex, but have no desire to follow through on them. If there's a specific girl that you're fantasising about, and you think that you'd be happy to actually be with her, then maybe start questioning your sexuality.
I'm sorry about what happened with your friends dad, I can't imagine how hard that would be to deal with, but the only way to start getting over it imo is to get in there and prove to yourself that not all men are like that. If you think you need help getting over how you feel, talk to a therpist, it really helps a lot of people.
Also, don't worry about not being big into babies, plenty of people who weren't that entuasiastic about it in their youth make wonderful mums :)