Gay-straight-bi

If anyone was wondering, I'm in a same sex relationship now. I've been in it for almost two years.
I never ended up defining myself as anything, because I realized I don't really like labels. But I'm more attracted to men than women.
I would deffinitely be in a relationship with a woman; but for the most part, I find my attraction towards them to be more romantic than sexual (there's a small sexual component though).
If I HAD to define myself as anything (keeping in mind that I don't think labels are totally accurate) I'd say that I'm homosexual and biromantic.
And the reason I feel that rejection or lack of attraction towards homosexual kissing and affection, was mostly due to how we are usually socialized to expect/accept heterosexuality and reject homosexuality.
I just wanted to post this in case someone might be going through what I was when I posted this, and maybe it could help.

Thanks to all who commented!

Too confusing for my fused brain......?

It's normal, and I can tell you why.

First of all, I consider myself gay. I watch straight, bi, and gay porn. I have sex with men and women. What you must realize is that sex is sex. You don't need to be fully attracted to every part of a male or female. Here's an example I'll use; I have standards for men and women, so it's not because I am gay all standards for men go down or for women.

With women: I could care less about tits. Sure, it would be nice for them to not be completely flat, but have a bit of volume. The main thing I care about with women is for them to be slender and have a small, tight vagina. Simple as that (and a pleasant face). I like to see how they respond as they wrap around me and ride. Ok, that's enough, don't need anymore detail.

With men: I can be attracted to all parts of their body: arms, legs, ass, chest, pecs, abs, face, and cock. I will screw or get screwed by a man. I just like everything about a man.

To sum it up, I would have sex with a woman; but with a man, I would actually uphold a relationship and have sex with them. Sexual orientation can be a complex thing

Okay. Here are some stats that I think will make you feel better. A New York study concluded that certain men have relations (limited as in just sex; no kissing, and others). They found that 1 in 10 men in the study have had or are currently having relations with another man. Furthermore, 70 percent of this 1/10 are straight. There are four categories which sex therapist use to help clients figure where they stand concerning sexual orientation. So, relax and find a sex therapist, you normy!

Very common. Damned iphone

Wayyyyy normal! I assume you are a younger man. People have such a myriad of desires. It can be confusing. You will figure it out soon. My guess is that you are primarily straight with tendencies to conditionally enjoy certain experiences with the same sex. Although not often discussed these tendencies are very on. I'll look for se stats and repost

i'm gona have to ask to anyone who wants to comment or vote to research this story.. cause i had to resbmit it due to some problems i had.. it's got the same name

Normal. You'll probably experiment one day. I'm married now. My wife and I had a threesome with a guy once. I was watching her give the guy head. I asked if I could try. I'm not attracted to males, but I wanted to do what has always been so taboo. It was quite a rush. I haven't done it since.