Gay once upon a time

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My wife recently told me she was a fully out of the closet lesbian when she was in her teens and 20’s. Went to lesbian bars and parties the whole schbang. Yes kind of took me by surprise since she just blurted it out after a few cocktails. So here’s my question. She says she has absolutely no desire or fantasy to be with woman ever again. Even before and after I kind of wonderd just based on her interaction with women. She swears no though that she doesn’t even think about it anymore. I have to think that’s impossible. How can you forget thank about something as deep as that. Is it possible to go from being a committed lesbian to absolutely straight?

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  • SKDM007
    5 years ago

    she is probably bi instead

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  • Grunewald
    5 years ago

    I've changed over time; so can she. It's not as 'fixed' or as homogenous as people make out.

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    • Barbarella
      5 years ago

      I didn't know that you have ever fucked both. How else would know which gender was better?

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    It's not that deep of a thing. Maybe she's bi, and happy with you?

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  • sissycakes
    5 years ago

    my brother was talking me about something along these lines that a singer that he listens to was bi but was happy with his wife and noone would believe that he was bi. if she is happy with you, truly happy, than she doesn't want a woman for real.

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    I don't know man, your guess is as good as mine. Just trust and love her; and don't obsess over the past. If you feel she's going to dump you for puss, talk to her about it.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    You need to trust what she's telling you about her sexuality. It's not unusual for this to change over time: over my long lifetime I've been heterosexual, bi, totally lesbian for decades, now bi with male lovers and keeping my eye out for a woman lover.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Does she identify as straight now? I mean you don’t need a label but maybe you can lose interest in what attracts you and later in life find something you didn’t used to be into now attracts you, it can happen with anything. Ik it seems weird for a attraction to just vanish but we change a lot through life, find things we like that later don’t have that spark. And maybe she’s just really comfortable around women without having some attraction to them. Or maybe she does still feel that way toward women but while with you doesn’t want anyone else regardless of their gender. Therefore is happy with you and doesn’t want any other man or women and has no desire to be with anyone else. Idk you’d know her better just talk with her about it.

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