What the guy did was wrong, and by no means does it reflect anything about you. It does reflect a lot about him, though.
You know who you are, and you know what you like. You're a straight guy- and that guy took advantage of you when you were in an "incompetent" state (for lack of a better term).
In the date rape article they mentioned that "No means no & as soon as it is said then it's rape" HOWEVER, they didn't say that it's rape/assault if you don't say yes. So, if you never said yes, (EVEN if you didn't say no) it is/was illegal! You were sexually violated and no matter how strong/masculine/secure/etc you are with yourself, you'll need therapy.
And, please, don't commit suicide. What he did to you is not what you chose. (Or, even if you did choose it, it doesn't make you a bad/immoral person!) This site may help if you're still feeling suicidal: http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
I wish you the best of luck, and I can promise you there's a ton of people who would support you through your times of difficulty!
Gay experiences causing extreme stress Normal?
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First off, I'm very sorry this happened to you.
What the guy did was wrong, and by no means does it reflect anything about you. It does reflect a lot about him, though.
You know who you are, and you know what you like. You're a straight guy- and that guy took advantage of you when you were in an "incompetent" state (for lack of a better term).
In the date rape article they mentioned that "No means no & as soon as it is said then it's rape" HOWEVER, they didn't say that it's rape/assault if you don't say yes. So, if you never said yes, (EVEN if you didn't say no) it is/was illegal! You were sexually violated and no matter how strong/masculine/secure/etc you are with yourself, you'll need therapy.
And, please, don't commit suicide. What he did to you is not what you chose. (Or, even if you did choose it, it doesn't make you a bad/immoral person!) This site may help if you're still feeling suicidal: http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
I wish you the best of luck, and I can promise you there's a ton of people who would support you through your times of difficulty!