Gay bf calls his gay friend a lot

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ok.. me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years, yes we are a gay couple. so ever since i started dating him his male friend (who is also gay) call each other a lot well they always called each other a lot before i met him... i mean since the begining of our relationship.. they were friends before i met him... he and his friend call each other about 3 or 4 times everyday! seriously i see the phone records and sometimes they call each other at odd hours like 1 am.. i mean me and my bf call each other like 10-12 times a day to.... but do friends call each other just to check up on them.. like he calls him just to ask how his day is going... is this just a gay tendency to talk on the phone a lot or should i be worried.. ive asked him why he calls him so much and he admits he calls him a lot and he tells me not to intererfere with his friends... please help me its DRIVING ME NUTS!!! im 18 and my bf is 23 and his friend is 19... were all gay..

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  • bonibakesbrownees
    15 years ago | pl

    u should hav a 3sum

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago | pl

    My brother does that but I dont think he gay so um maybe its a bromance

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  • DES
    13 years ago | pl

    Yes it's norm to be stress about being a female who loves to talk I don't call my friend that offend it's something to look at

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  • Hyhatt69
    13 years ago | pl

    Ok dude...I'm not gay but this is what happened to me, it's along the same lines. A few years ago ; befour I met my girlfriend I have now....I went out with this really hot blonde for a few months, she was a bimbo but she was so smokin hot I couldn't stay away, anyways her boyfriend befour me as I was told wasn't interested in her but she was of him.....so he dumped her. A couple mnths into seeing her he starts to call...then it's like every week at a certain time.....then it was every day...then he's comming over when I'm not there...next thing you know I catch him fucking her in her apartment. What I'm trying to tell you is: it's ok for your guy to have friends but he has to respect you; calling your man 4 times a day is disrespectful....look into it, let him know you don't like it.

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  • destiny_taylor
    14 years ago | pl

    Ahh, what the hell! i don't call my bestfriend everyday at that matter! That dosen't seem normal for "friends" to call at 1 am. Theres something wrong there, if they feel okay calling that early. I think you should ask him some about this guy.

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  • iraver
    14 years ago | pl

    awwwwwwwwwwwwww

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  • mattyboy333
    14 years ago | pl

    ive had similar issues with my boyfriend, i found it hard to be trusting, but i figure everyone needs some space to themselvs. but latenite phonecalls. hmmm.

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago | pl

    I think it just might be a tendancy. XD But I think you should trust him, until he gives you reasonable cause to doubt. Just relax, I'm sure it's nothing. You did say they were friends before you met, so they're probably just close.

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  • starr
    14 years ago | pl

    talk to him about it and say your getting jealous if hes says its not tell him okay i was just asking i trust you and trust him its what love is about!

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  • comalies
    14 years ago | pl

    I'd check up on it
    but not worry too much about it
    dont make a big deal, because then you'll look insecure in the eyes of your bf.

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  • Solimorphic
    14 years ago | pl

    You're gay. That's not normal. Period.

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