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Fucked up if ur bf doesn’t hang with u on the 4th

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is it fucked up? he wants to be with his friends

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charli.m

4 years ago | pl

From what I remember of your incessant stories, you're both shitty people.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  what! how am i shitty haha
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    Well, I can't speak for anyone else, but you seem like be very needy, and clingy to this jerk of a boyfriend you've got, but choose to stay with him. Also you ask for lots of advice from people here, and yet to never really take it.
    
    I honestly think that the best thing that has happened so far is that he got arrested for assaulting you, because for a lot people that would be reason enough to leave him, and never look back, yet you choose to continue with him.
    
    The best thing that you could do for yourself is to leave him, and never look back. Also, I think it would greatly behoove you to take a break from dating entirely, and work on improving yourself.
    
    If I were your age again I wouldn't want to mess with such a toxic relationship, not even if I was being paid to do so. If I were you I would concentrate on studying, and trying to be the best person I could be instead of wasting my time, energy, emotion, efforts and life on such a loser as this stupid guy you seem to be obsessed with who treats you poorly. Also you need to stop snooping through this jerk's stuff like his phone, and computer. If you can't trust him enough to not snoop then he's not good boyfriend material.
    
    You really just need to leave this guy, and start working on yourself!
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      well i’m not ready to leave yet. i really want things to work with him and things are getting better i just tend to overthink things like him going to see his friends.. on the 4th. should i be worrier? all my friends are busy so idk what to do!:( he said i can spend the night and be at his place while he’s out but i don’t want to be bored
      
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        4 years ago
        
        Maybe you can choose to spend time with your family?
        
        I honestly can't understand why you wouldn't be ready to leave yet. I'd rather keep a bleeding hemorrhoid around than that guy of yours.
        
        What do you do besides waste your time with him? Do you go to college, if so what is your major? Do you have a job?
        
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        4 years ago
        
        i’m a psychology student and yeah i work at my dads work
        
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  - Nikclaire
    
    4 years ago
    
    You aren't "shitty" your just totally self involved and probably 15 or something. You think because YOU like holidays, that entitles you to be invited everywhere. It doesn't. He wants a night with his mates. Let him. If you can't handle that, you're needy and if I was him I would curb you.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      i’m 20.
      
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      - Nikclaire
        
        4 years ago
        
        Well so am I. Honestly it sounds like you need to grow up a little tbtf
        
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Boogienights

4 years ago

4th of what? Oh I see, youre another insular American who thinks that the whole world is America.

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- Mrown
  
  4 years ago
  
  up top, man 🖐️
  
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  - splashgame3
    
    4 years ago
    
    Down low, man 😏
    
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Primus

4 years ago

Bros before hoes, dontcha know?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  nah
  
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  on a holiday, really? shouldn’t you invite your gf
  
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  - TakemeImyours
    
    4 years ago
    
    That's not nice. To. Say to a lady.
    
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  - GordaLicious3
    
    4 years ago
    
    If he didn’t invite you it’s because he doesn’t want you there
    
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    If you can't work up the courage to leave this guy, then at least plan something fun, and interesting to do with your own friends, and family.
    
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  - curious-bunny
    
    4 years ago
    
    The 4th is a joke of a holiday. Get over it child
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      what do you mean it’s a joke? it’s not here where we live in California.. right by the beach and the bars
      
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      - curious-bunny
        
        4 years ago
        
        Location is irrelevant. The whole 4th of July celebration is stupid. Ie a joke. It's not really a holiday. It's just an excuse for people to get drunk and light shit on fire
        
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        Primus
        
        4 years ago
        
        NOT stupid. I think if we didn't take a few days out of the year to excuse drinking and lighting shit on fire/acting generally like a retard we'd all go crazy.
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        4 years ago
        
        i agree. but should i be worried about what he’s doing without me..?
        
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  - Primus
    
    4 years ago
    
    Only if you like her and aren't cheating.
    
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Nikclaire

4 years ago

Asked and answered. Stop being so needy and let him enjoy the day. You can't just "claim" all holidays by saying you really like them.

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- barefoot_on_the_sand
  
  4 years ago
  
  Are you all right Claire? Please reply.
  
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RoseIsabella

4 years ago

That sucks, so just dump him, and move on with your life. Before you dump him you should eat lots of spicy food especially beans, take a massive dump in the guy's toilet, and break up with him on a text, then block him on all media. Do it, you will feel better! 💩🤠

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- Boogienights
  
  4 years ago
  
  But do a reverse kanga
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    4 years ago
    
    ... also take a plastic grocery store bag in which to throw away all the used toilet paper so as to leave a clear view of the massive deposit. Dispose of the bag full of dirty toilet paper someplace where it will surprise him.
    
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Pooundholes

4 years ago

So what you end up doing?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  hung with my family, he went bar hopping with his friends and then i guess he fainted and i came over at like 6
  
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GaelicPotato

4 years ago

Honestly, the fact it means something to you doesn't mean it means something to him.

Either way, he should spend it with you if he knows it means a lot to you.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  so what should i do
  
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Anonymous Post Author

4 years ago

so what should i di

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AnneViolet

4 years ago

Generally yes but we need more context.

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  4 years ago
  
  he hasn’t seen his friends in a long time and i guess one of his friends friend is coming into town so he wants to see him. they’re most likely going to go to bars and my bf doesn’t even drink but that’s alllll his friends do. i said “ill find someone to hang with” and i guess that must of tripped him up bc he then said, “you can spend the night and be at my place while i’m out” ... im just so confused
  
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Doesnormalmatter

4 years ago

Don't know enough about the situation to say for sure, but based off what I know, yes this is fucked up. He should want to be with you.

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  4 years ago
  
  he said i can stay at his appartment while he’s out....
  
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  - Doesnormalmatter
    
    4 years ago
    
    Why did I get three downvotes??? Lol da fuck? Your bf sounds like a cunt.
    
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      4 years ago
      
      you think! hahaha. i don’t know why you got 3 thumbs down. lame. anyways, any advice on what i should do?
      
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      - Doesnormalmatter
        
        4 years ago
        
        Question him about how important you are to him. Try to reveal his true motives because I suspect he may be using you a little.
        
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        4 years ago
        
        what makes you think that? why would he
        
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