Fuck buddies etiquette

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What is the etiquette when it comes to being fuck buddies. We've only known each other for a couple of months and catch up twice a week. He has been the one making first contact most of the time. Should we take turns in initiating the catch ups? Yesterday I asked him if he wanted to catch up later that night and he said maybe. So I said ok... I then made other plans, and he ended up wanting to catch up... So I said I couldn't as I had already made other plans.... Do you think he was playing hard to get when he said "maybe" and that he would see? Is it because he is the one making first contact most of the time?
He is pretty young and almost 10 years younger than me....

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  • dom180
    9 years ago | pl

    Usually the advantage of the whole idea is for it to be stress-free. In keeping with that premise, just take it easy and do what feels honest. If you feel like sex, ask for it. If he feels asks for sex but you have other plans or don't want to, be honest. Fuck buddies are allowed to be selfish.

    In my limited first-hand experience, fuck buddies are usually quite indirect. There's a lot of coy "maybe". It creates sexual tension, which makes the sex more satisfying. You can flirtily ask "does that mean yes?" if you want to know what he means without breaking the tension.

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  • fr332B
    9 years ago | pl

    There is no hard and fast rule this is something you should discuss with him. It is better to have the frank conversation than it is to never know where you stand. Communicate communicate communicate.

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