Friendship broken

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i had this friend who i have been closed to for about 4 months. but now i decided not to share my stories with him or treat him like before...he is good when girls r not around which means he loves being closed to girls and when he is with his friends (girls) he probably come to ignore me..whever there is school activitives he seems as if it is i m not his friend he ignores me..only during the school time...we seem really closed in others' eyes..well, yes he is a good friend but i just can't umderstand why he doesn't invite me to hang out with him?? and yes he comes from a better developed country when compare with mine. and he something discriminate me jeering about my country in front of me! its ok i forgive because he been my closed friend,so i didn't say back anything..but last 2 weeks ago he found more new friends who r just girls... and he didnt call me? and in facebook he posted he is into someone's world...and he just started to ignore me! i said WTF!!! is it normal for me to also start ignoring him!

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  • ICeicebaby7492
    12 years ago

    Forget him 4 months of fake friendship isn't worth the aggrivation

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  • croz
    13 years ago

    thanks for the advice guys..i m studyinf college abroad so, like i need one or two friends close to me.. but anyway, me and that friend become complete strangers afterall..now, i would just smile to him in class or outside..i m now hanging out with other friends who r very close but still..i m happy to be myself. :D thanks guys

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Whatever his problem is - (and you BTW don't have to waste time figuring that out) - go with how you feel about this behaviour. Disrespected. Unacknowledged. Hurt. Confused. Ashamed. Ignored.

    Pretty much a negative experience. Right? You can try to stand up for yourself & tell him what he is doing & how you feel & be more demanding that he not behave badly & respect you.

    In other words stop being a door mat. Or you can walk away and move on because frankly this guy may not be salvageable anyway.

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  • ryanthony
    13 years ago

    Sounds like you're in love with the boy.

    A lot of people act differently when they're alone or with just one other person. People form shells of shyness or extroversion when in large groups or around the sex they're attracted to.

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