Friendship

Well my best friend means everything to me and i dont know what id do without her. And we have been through alot and just about ended our friendship. All we used to do is argue but we have come to fix all of that. Sometimes she says the most meanest things to me and i know i have said upsetting things to her so maybe i deserve it. Just to clue you guys in she is older then me and almost like a mom but my best friend to. And i came across this poem and i thought that it had fits our friendship good so i printed it out and was going to give it to her but i told her i had a suprise for her and she said she didnt like suprises but i didnt want to tell her it would ruin it and she said that she didnt want it. And that was hurtful that something i thought she would want she doesnt. Some things she says upset me and make me wonder if we should even have any kind of friendship. am i taking things to far?

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  • You just care that's all

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  • maybe too far.

    you and your friend really should be basing your friendships on commonalities. you will be better off with friends that are in the same age group as yourself.

    of course you are grieving the ending of your friendship. it is normal to feel bad now.

    i don't think the poem was a good idea. it's just too dramatic. forget about it.

    some people just hate suprises, and they don't want to deal with them. you should accept that your friend told you how she felt, and leave it at that. plus, that poem may not bring the reaction that you think it will.

    i am sorry that your friendship has ended, but know that it happens to everyone. do the right thing and move on.

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    • Did you really think a poem was dramatic? I thought that it fit perfectly. I wasnt trying to suck up or anything. I know that friendships end with everyone. We work together. I see her just about every day. I dont think that i could go to work and be there with someone i was that close too. We worked things out just like always but then we are arguing the next day again. Maybe it is the age difference? But cant people have a normal friendship wtih a big age differnece?

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