Friends. real good friends... help me

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So there's this guy, that I've been talking to for an year and something and we are like really close now, we told each other we like each other, but I think he has an girlfriend, I honestly don't think he takes me seriously, even though I'm a little crazy and allow him to touch me, I touch him too, I keep a lot of things away from him and lie to him a lot, I feel that I want to make a move with him but things are complicated for me and he will be moving to an different city anyways, so it will be an short term relationship, which is also something I'm not looking for... but whenever he says he's hanging out with other girls I get super jealous and feel like murdering him... is this normal? I feel very psychotic over him at times but I try so hard just to make it appear that I don't care and he can be with whoever he wants. Can someone give me some advice?

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    You have a sick mind. Forget about this guy, watch old movies and masturbate in the bathtub.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    You sound like an awful person. I do think some jealousy is normal, but I honestly can feel for you, cause you're talking about wanting him dead... and oh yeah, you said you lie to him anyway. Do the right thing, get over it and leave this poor dude alone.

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  • AndrogynousBoy
    6 years ago

    You feel affection towards him because he's the only guy with whom you spend this much time together. Had you found another guy of your liking then those feelings of jealousy would disappear.
    You need to find bf of your own, he's taken. Deal with it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      Why do you always have so much good advice?..... I've distanced myself from him I've stopped replying to his messages and don't talk to him much anymore. But he thinks something is up, but I don't want him to think I'm jealous of his girl or whatever.

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  • DOT86
    6 years ago

    You know I have been in love with my best friend for...from the day I met her and one time we got so drunk on a few bottles of Pinot Noir and started dancing we layed on each other... but we stopped at that it was exciting to get that close to her, at the time she was just about to get married, and 20 yrs later now that I'm getting married, she called me and said we got to get a couple of bottles of pinot! I think we'll always love one another secretly at least I will. It's ok to feel jealous I was for sometime when i'd see her and her husband be affectionate, now not so much.

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  • ERIC-CARTMAN98
    6 years ago

    A girl getting jealous? That's the most normal thing ever.

    Your relationship does sound a bit complicated though.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      He's also been ignoring my texts, I'm guessing there's an new girl on the scene idgaf anyways

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  • S12207
    6 years ago

    It sounds like you both are playing too many games with eachother. You say you lie to him and pretend this and that, you ever think maybe he's doing the same thing? He might be feeding off you and you're giving it right back.

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